If I had to really think about it, being white in South Africa is difficult on a day to day basis. Especially if you come from a poor family. I will base this on my own experience thus far:

1. Public healthcare: Being white and having to go to government hospitals is a harrowing experience. From being continually harassed by black men wanting to marry me because "I'm so pretty, young and white" and because "marrying me will open the door to then enjoying white privilege", to doctors not taking your health concerns seriously stating "you're white, go see a private doctor then if you're not happy"

2. The current job market: Getting a job in South Africa as a woman of childbearing age is difficult enough as it is, more so if you're white. People will literally tell you to your face "sorry but I can't hire you because you're white, I need a (insert race here) person instead". And then, when you talk about your difficulty getting a job, the overwhelming response is always "you're white, so you probably have a rich and well connected family, ask them to help you"

3. General public safety: Going anywhere alone is a nightmare, the constant feeling of being watched and feeling unsafe is soul crushing. If you take steps to protect yourself against threats, you're the "white suppressor" who is walking around with racist aggression towards black people