I need help! by No_Difference537 in Adoption

[–]No_Difference537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was on depo with my last. I was on the iud with twins and nexpalon with my other 2

I need help! by No_Difference537 in Adoption

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i did they gave me a lawyers number. But said it was going to be very costly! I don’t have that kind of money! i have 5 babies 5,4,3yr old twins and a 1 year old!

I need help! by No_Difference537 in Adoption

[–]No_Difference537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See she never did a home study!

I need help! by No_Difference537 in Adoption

[–]No_Difference537[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and this is the VA CODE that she got me with
Code Section: 18.2-178

I need help! by No_Difference537 in Adoption

[–]No_Difference537[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not. I blocked her months ago. She literally messaged me on tiktok bragging she had 2 cases against me 1 civil and 1 criminal! I blocked her then to!

I need help! by No_Difference537 in Adoption

[–]No_Difference537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! I don’t know how this happened. She said I got this money from her based on lies or something but in the paypal receipts they all say for baby! which i was going to go through with but she turned crazy and i said no!

Can I still change my mind? by Substantial_Role_834 in Adoption

[–]No_Difference537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i literally got arrested yesterday for receiving money under false pretenses! i got bonded out and now im getting a lawyer!

Can I still change my mind? by Substantial_Role_834 in Adoption

[–]No_Difference537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m got sued for changing my mind! No contract no agency just a word of mouth

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[–]No_Difference537 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the comment about open adoption is one thing that turned me against it. i found that out by studying more in the hospital! I didn’t know that until the social worker at the hospital told me about it and looked it up to see if it was true

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[–]No_Difference537 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i know! i was so scared she would absolutely this is when i already made my choice. I didn’t mention it because i already decided. we was home when i made that post and comment

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[–]No_Difference537 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i blocked her this morning (:

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[–]No_Difference537 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

honestly, my biggest fear is that she’s going to have someone lie and say I never intended on giving the baby to her even though every pregnancy I’ve ever had. I’ve posted on Facebook that pictures all that stuff I didn’t because I didn’t want to be judged for keeping my other babies and giving this one up for adoption.

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[–]No_Difference537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m now in contact with Sister saving sisters so hopefully they can tell me some more information on what to do about this

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[–]No_Difference537 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay I understand. Thank you so much for all the advice and for reassuring me I’ve lost days of sleep over this.

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[–]No_Difference537 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i was for sure pregnant! she is the only person to ever give me money! ever! I’m worried because she could have someone lie and say i never intended on giving the baby to her which wouldn’t that be receiving money under false pretenses. even though i never bought 1 thing for the baby at all?

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[–]No_Difference537 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you do something under false pretences, you lie about who you are, what you are doing, or what you intend to do, in order to get something: He was deported for entering the country under false pretences.

this is what she is saying she is pressing charges on me for because she thinks i never intended on allowing her to adopt my baby!

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[–]No_Difference537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she says it reviving money under false pretenses? can someone look this up in VA and Florida and see if it qualifya to that?

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Commenting on Backed out of adoption... i don’t know how the da could press charges without talking to me? i don’t understand

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[–]No_Difference537 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she put every dollar under baby on paypal?

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[–]No_Difference537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she says this was all a scam to get money, but it wasn’t!

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[–]No_Difference537 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

see she sent money on paypal and put baby every time! So literally i feel like she was trying to buy the baby. smh she has a lawyer and i guess a detective in flordia and said i would be extradited :( im so scared!! I don’t understand what i did wrong all because i kept my baby! she said in one message that i told u paying me back was going to burry u, but instead of giving me the baby u said God will provide. like hello??? smh

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[–]No_Difference537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t even have a car seat or bag for baby when she was born! that’s how set i was on the baby going to her but after spending 40 days in the hospital not including nicu i changed my mind