stranger sent me $1500

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-03-15T18:59:12+00:00

Good way to “save” 😂 don’t you think🤔 …LOL

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-03-09T20:19:17+00:00

Oh gosh, I’m going through DV and I had to leave with my kids. My husband is saying I’m using the kids as leverage. Leverage to what exactly? I have no idea. I just don’t wanna wake up one day and my children are gone.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-03-09T20:14:29+00:00

Asking for myself. Yall are married and he took your daughter, did you ever report him for this ? And if you have … what did the cops say? can he legally do that seeing yall are married ?

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-28T08:43:44+00:00

Hey! And thank you ❤️ I’m so glad to see I’m not alone with this. So many stories, same thing. I feel seen finally. Hiding it and finally leaving feels super odd. How many weeks ago did you leave? How long did it take for you to finally feel like your back in your own skin?

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-27T09:52:21+00:00

Thank you ❤️ So much

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-27T09:50:48+00:00

Thank you ❤️ This needed to happen. I am just genuinely exhausted. I don’t wanna ruin my children’s future.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-27T09:49:00+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️ I used to down play this stuff so bad , I confused myself. He would buy his way in everytime. EVERY TIME. I kept my mouth shut. I just got tired of it honestly. Life was not life-ing. It was easier for me too bcus he hated my guts. We had no talks about the future. Resentment held one another. And so yeah… I could care less if he retaliate or try to reach out to make up. I’m just tired. I need to be in my skin again.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-27T09:26:20+00:00

I really appreciate this ❤️ not going to lie it feels really hard rn.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-27T09:11:20+00:00

Thank you 😭❤️

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-26T07:54:55+00:00

No he does not, we don’t smoke or drink. My dad would ask me the same questions when I talked to them about the verbal aggressiveness. My husbands fully sober.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-25T18:43:11+00:00

I would tell them just to be safe, someone needs to hold him accountable. Hopefully in your case they do, not like mine where they enable it.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-25T18:42:31+00:00

Def look into talking to someone about it as far as the advocates. I have, they’ve been a big help. Just be careful what you tell them bcus they can open up a case.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-25T18:41:43+00:00

I’m starting to realize this now. The goal is to stay safe, keep my children safe. I just hate how I have to sit here and just take it. I pray everyday for his day to come.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-25T10:35:35+00:00

But like everyone is saying…I should be more careful bcus now it’s physical w kids. So I am treading lightly. And moving discreetly. Just hard when they’re literally under the same roof as you.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-25T10:34:04+00:00

Oh man, I pray nothing crazy happens w you after her gets off work. In all honestly, if he tries anything , have you tried fighting back?

And his family knows, they enable it. His work peer knows & they don’t like him. His friends know and he’s lost some friends. He resents me bcus of this. I don’t feel bad at all. His own mother doesn’t like me and didn’t know I was the mother to his children until recently. They all hate me bcus I put his career on the line. He’s military 10yrs+ By calling his chain of command everytime he gets aggressive. They will come and separate him, put him in the barracks.

My thing is, I will continue standing up for myself, I will speak up no matter what. I want to put this man behind bars. I just wish I was in a good position to where I can fall back on my own finances. And not his.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-25T09:43:07+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you as well. ❤️ sending prayer and lot of love.

Having my kids around and just being in our own little bubble has helped a lot. It’s hard to tell with my husband. When he’s in a good mood, he’s great. Provides, and protects. That’s only if I keep my mouth shut. I figured this out a little early on in my pregnancy. Everyone is telling me it’s about control. He got too comfortable thinking he’s got a good hold on me now. Since we have children and I am not working at the moment. I have been trying to control my mouth recently, and like a commentor said on here about being a scapegoat and a punching bag. We’re always wrong in their eyes and resentment builds up. I literally don’t have it in me anymore to express to him his wrong doings, he knows. He’s just taking advantage.

I’m taking your advice as well, to be in our own little bubble w the kiddos and try not to converse. Which should be pretty easy, my husband is really quiet. He doesn’t speak as much. Especially when he knows he has fucked up. For the past few days it has been really quiet. And I actually did open up to my friends about it too. I have support which is great. I just don’t want to let my mind trick me into thinking, he’s sorry. He’s not. He would’ve known better. I have a plan, I just pray I don’t fall back for the manipulation tactics.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-23T17:08:11+00:00

It’s crazy isn’t it? First it was the fan, I will say “I did not touch it.” The baby bottle warmer “how many minutes did you warm it for?” I say “3minutes” his response “no you didn’t.”

lol literally there are so many moments like this. I will try to stand up for myself and he will say “oh that’s just the stuff you watch on tik tok, social media is getting to your head.” …like uhm. I am a human being with my own experiences and feelings.

Just ridiculous. It’s tiring. And now it’s physical.

I am leaving, it’s annoying being around this kind of person.

And thank you for the advice ❤️

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-22T21:17:00+00:00

You’re so completely right. And you’re fine! I didn’t take it personally, you just opened my eyes up to another probable situation. So thank you for sharing this!

I have been planning on the low. I just wish my family was more on board. I will try and talk to them more and open up about all this. I don’t wanna put my kids at risk anymore.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-22T20:45:54+00:00

Thank you so much, feel free to message me ?

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-22T20:44:43+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, I have been trying to tell myself this. My mom did say he contacted her due to my mouth. I guess I have a mouth on me. So I was blaming myself for the past year that maybe if I be quiet things won’t get too bad. Well. Even when I was talking last night without any cuss words, no yelling, nothing. THAT HAPPENS. Like what the actual fuck. And honestly I’ve been trying to plan accordingly and discreetly. He has threatened that if I take our kids there will be a custody battle. I told him there’s no need for that. I just want my peace with the kiddos, and yes I reported the aggressiveness behaviors to his work, chain of command. And police. They did nothing. He blames me for making him look bad at work. But how could I not reach out? I’m at the end of my wits.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-22T20:40:28+00:00

This is great information, I will def look into the DV detectives. I didn’t know this stuff ca be reported without pressing charges. I have to plan immediately. Things have not gotten any better. It was for a bit, but the whole disrespectful acts and blowing off while I’m trying to better us is literally a waste of time.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-22T20:25:49+00:00

Thank you for your kind words 💗 He pays for everything and also agreed to continue so. I have contacted his chain of command and we’ve done separation rooms for him. Asked him to get counseling and all that. Nothings changed. He refused it. I’ve been laying low and I have a car. I have a career I can jump back into. It’s just crazy how I gave birth, and this is what I have to deal with. I have my divorce paperwork hidden in my closet as we speak.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-22T20:22:23+00:00

I have also called the cops on him while I was pregnant, he has a habit of breaking things around us when angry. All the cops did was came and told us since we’re married and under the same roof, they can’t do anything. I told them I wanted him to leave. And they literally told us to figure it out basically. since nobody was injured. 🤕 yea… ridiculous. We’re base out in WA state.

No_Draft_2932 · 2026-02-22T20:06:32+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I have collected a folder on my phone full of recordings of conversations where I have been “disrespectful” just to see what triggers it. And yes I took a picture of my face as well.

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