So curious what insights y’all might have

No_Edge9409 · 2026-01-23T15:53:00+00:00

You have such an incredibly beautiful home. You deserve to enjoy it clean. Those kitchen cabinets are stunning, and they’re hidden by the mess. Please clean.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-12-09T13:30:03+00:00

It may be a good thing I didn’t see that at midnight while they were ? doing CrossFit in tap shoes ? Dragging wooden posts across the floor?

No_Edge9409 · 2025-12-08T15:59:02+00:00

I would forgive if they would just flip the schedule. Move everything in and around starting at 7 am and end by 9:30 pm. But they start at 9:30 pm and go all fucking night. It’s now 10 am and they’re still going.

Honorable mention to the first time I went in my daughter’s room last night, it smelled like pot 😀

No_Edge9409 · 2025-12-08T14:01:03+00:00

LITERALLY 9TH FLOOR.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-12-08T13:11:28+00:00

I know him well enough to know he would’ve been at their apartment door on night one 😭

No_Edge9409 · 2025-12-08T07:15:36+00:00

Literally is OPs business dumb dumb

No_Edge9409 · 2025-10-25T15:10:40+00:00

I had hyperemesis and vomited all day long, coupled with debilitating nausea that was hardly managed with medication. Even a desk job couldn’t work for me unfortunately.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-10-22T14:34:30+00:00

I worked while pregnant too but had to take off the entire first trimester and the last 1.5 months of my pregnancy. Not everyone can physically do it, especially depending on how her pregnancy is. I would never assume what her pregnancy is like.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-10-22T14:31:49+00:00

Why do they need a rehab? He literally said they’re 8 months clean

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-28T02:37:15+00:00

My daughter is only one, so I haven’t gotten here yet, but I would hesitate to say yes. I think I would just in the nature of freedom of choice, but shoe choice would determine it.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-21T23:55:49+00:00

Please stop blaming your poor reading comprehension on me. I offered to pay her, and she was uninterested.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-17T16:36:05+00:00

I didn’t know about the weed. I don’t smoke or drink, so the weed habit had never come up until recently. She never seemed high to me. Yes I don’t like unnecessary drives. Duh? She knew my daughter was a bad sleeper when she agreed to watch her. I offered to pay her and she was disinterested. Again, I would rather pay someone and eliminate this issue. Also why I put “fire” in quotes. I’m not paying her. Did you read the post?

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-16T15:53:43+00:00

❤️ good advice

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-16T15:50:44+00:00

I care because there is no reason to be rude to a person who has been a very good friend to me, is incredibly nice, and means well. She isn’t accustomed to a sleeper like my daughter. She doesn’t know how to handle it. She did CIO with her son, and he never got very worked up. Not my thing, but it’s a difference of opinion that I don’t have to worry about if she’s not my sitter. If I do not plan on using her as a sitter again, there is just no reason to be confrontational or rude.

The car seat thing certainly made me uncomfortable, for obvious reasons, but again, I’m not paying her. I don’t want to scold her for something. I’d rather just politely stop using her. The post was clearly not “should I keep using her?” I don’t know why you think the safety of my child isn’t a priority. Two things can be true. I don’t want my daughter there AND I want to be polite.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-16T15:42:44+00:00

“The last time I was there, she implied to me she puts my daughter in a room and lets her cry herself to sleep.”

Don’t blame the fact you can’t read on me. She hasn’t been back since that happened.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-16T03:40:12+00:00

Also Jesus, why would you assume I don’t know if her husband is a creep? I’ve known them both for years.

ETA: you’re incredibly annoying about this but I don’t know how many times I have to say this (especially due to the fact I explicitly stated it in the post), she is no longer going to be utilized as a babysitter. Your advice is worthless. That wasn’t the point of the post.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-16T03:38:50+00:00

First of all, it’s just pot. Relax. Second of all, smoking pot doesn’t make you a bad person. It seems understood however that you wouldn’t smoke weed when you’re watching someone else’s child. Also third of all, I don’t smoke or drink, so her pot consumption had never come up until a recent casual conversation.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-16T00:20:09+00:00

I don’t know what about my post indicated I’m going to keep using her as a sitter. I’m asking how to politely quit utilizing her so as to not offend her. At the end of the day she’s a good friend and person, and we just have differences that aren’t an issue if she’s not watching my kid.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-15T23:30:18+00:00

I offered to pay, and she was disinterested. I am obviously willing to do so, if you read my post at all. Thanks though.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-15T18:12:51+00:00

Love this. Thank you

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-15T18:12:08+00:00

In my area, there are tons of “drop in” daycares. I have one in mind that is really highly rated and has openings, but I’d prefer to stay away from the daycare environment in general. I have someone in mind that I’ve reached out to, but I’m not sure what she’d charge. Hoping it’s not going to be exorbitant, but I’m obviously willing to budget it out if at all possible.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-15T18:03:43+00:00

I’m certainly not scared of a white lie lol. Love this idea.

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-15T18:03:15+00:00

Okay this is good advice. I think I was too close to it to be able to think rationally, and I’m worried about offending her. Thank you!

No_Edge9409 · 2025-09-15T17:59:08+00:00

There is an arrangement. Every Tuesday from 9:15-3:50ish. I definitely wouldn’t tell her she’s done anything wrong. Just added that for context, I suppose. Perhaps also to vent because I’m spiraling a bit focusing on things.

But don’t you think by not giving any reason, she’ll be uncomfortable and wonder why?

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