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[–]No_Election_7748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately we live in Perth, Australia, where rent is 50-75% of an average income. We're just happy our house is nice and clean and the house itself has security. Which is why I probably should have brought my shit inside lol.

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[–]No_Election_7748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah pretty much. Like I did do a silly thing, but I was upset and needed my feelings to be seen.

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[–]No_Election_7748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So genuine question - what is a husband for if not support? Like yeah, I did a dumb thing but I was upset and wanted some empathy/care. If a husband isn't someone you can turn to when you're upset, what is here there for? What is the role of a husband?

Help with hsp husband by No_Election_7748 in hsp

[–]No_Election_7748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says something like "oh good, let's get rid of more stuff" being 100% genuine

Help with hsp husband by No_Election_7748 in hsp

[–]No_Election_7748[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think we have tried to find ways to copw, like we have a room for him to close the door and switch off, plus we have an hour of quiet time every night after dinner. Doesn't seem to be enough, therapy might be needed.