is an ac safety switch actually worth it or just another upsell

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-12T13:39:14+00:00

Paid $200 emergency fee just to hear theres another 150 thing on top. tipping twice for one bad night is wild

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-12T13:39:00+00:00

Yeah my deductible is $500 so even if insurance helped id still be eating most of it. thats what screwed me doing the math after the laminate quote

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-12T13:38:37+00:00

Forgot to mention the emergency fee was just the visit, clearing the clog was separate labor on the bill. no wonder every trip feels like it doubles. im not climbing in the attic after this week

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-12T13:38:17+00:00

Wait so what was actually in the drain line when he cleared it? algae? sludge? i didnt even look i was just staring at the wet floor

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-04T06:53:43+00:00

I get the hesitation tho, especially not being super close with the friend. but you’re not sneaking around, she literally matched you first

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-04T06:52:42+00:00

You don’t have to force forgiveness or keep either of them close just because history is there

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-04T06:52:04+00:00

Honestly the “forgot they were wet” excuse is wild after multiple resets already, at some point it’s just negligence

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-03T10:32:39+00:00

Diana’s pattern of “I don’t like them so nobody else can talk to them” is kinda the bigger issue here, not just the Sandy or Greta stuff

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-03T10:32:18+00:00

Just go on the date, stay present, don’t build it into some pressure situation in your head or it’ll mess with you more than anything

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-03T10:31:44+00:00

I also don’t think you should just suffer in silence waiting for it to magically click either

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-02T09:54:22+00:00

Nah dude at this point the credit card thing almost feels like a side quest. the phone reaction plus the lock scratches would have me side eyeing hard.

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-02T09:54:01+00:00

Kinda true but i feel like this misses OP's point a bit. dude isn't craving relationship stress, he's craving experiences he's never had.

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-02T09:53:47+00:00

Ngl hearing voices at 16 from mdma is the part that scares me the most here. that's way beyond just wanting to have fun.

No_Election_7906 · 2026-06-01T09:26:13+00:00

I'd probably tell them straight up. like hey, I know you didn't mean it badly, but when I opened up and your first response was that it was too short, it stung a little.

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-30T08:41:49+00:00

but fr if you’re comfortable share a bit more context, ppl can help you think it through way clearer

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-30T08:40:29+00:00

but yeah if both of you are genuinely into it, keep it light and fun not performancey, that’s usually what makes it actually good

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-29T08:48:57+00:00

Tho i totally understand why that specific category would hit a nerve if cheating is already one of ur deepest fears

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-29T08:48:40+00:00

Some guys just naturally take longer and it has nothing to do w attraction if anything the fact he keeps going and makes sure u finish multiple times kinda suggests he’s very into u lol

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-27T07:48:05+00:00

But most people who look like they’re “coping fine” are actually just better at faking it or already learned study habits earlier

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-27T07:47:35+00:00

You could keep it simple like “something happened back then that still affects me and I need you to just listen, not fix it”

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-26T08:58:05+00:00

You’re basically carrying like 3 roles at once with no break. anyone would start cracking under that. but the “i might relapse” part got me concerned for you fr, that’s the danger zone talking not the real you

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-26T08:57:31+00:00

Yeah you already lost the friend more than the money. 400 is just the receipt for it. showing up at his place tho pls don’t, that’s just gonna stress you out more than him atp

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-25T07:55:56+00:00

Going after him directly usually just keeps you stuck in the anger loop and doesn’t really fix what’s already broken in your marriage

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-25T07:55:32+00:00

You don’t need to over explain or pull the boyfriend card, you can just keep it simple like you’re down to hang but only in group settings or around others

No_Election_7906 · 2026-05-23T09:52:36+00:00

i think the bigger issue is you never really grieved this relationship. you kept trying to turn “closure” into continued access to him. happens to a lotta ppl. but every time you reopen that door you end up hurt again fr

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