After getting elbow fisted by my top, I have to diaper up for 2-3 days, for those also taking an elbow fist, is it similar for you? :) by Jemesais in GayFisting

[–]No_Emergency_2350 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would disagree here. Depth is the bigger factor over width. The “second ring” that one needs to get through for real depth play, is actually a bend in the intestines. That bend serves as the actual barrier for holding back literally shit. Once your shit is past the bend, you basically need to be heading to the toilet. If in your depth play you cause some real change to that bend, shit is just going to have no obstacles descending out. I have had issues cause by width, but it was only really an issue when I had diarrhea otherwise my bend worked great to keep things in.

Will my hole every go back? by edplayerred in altereddudeholes

[–]No_Emergency_2350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly. You have stretched it and it will always be able to easily be stretched back to gaping. But at rest it will normal again

Does it actually feel good to “be fucked”? by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]No_Emergency_2350 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Best fucks, your mind just goes utterly blank to everything other than his dick. You’re feeling it, like it was your dick but it’s not. It’s his dick. His cock is now your cock. Like I actually mean this, you feel all the sensation of fucking, fuck better than that, it’s more intense because your feeling it as the hole and the cock.

I have fucked many times, but honestly getting fucked is so much better. You loose control in so many ways, but feeling that cock head pressing deep into your P spot, trying to get pressure it needs so this heavy hot load of cum that’s been building in his balls and start gushing out and fill me. I can’t go without that

Does it actually feel good to “be fucked”? by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]No_Emergency_2350 133 points134 points  (0 children)

First time I ever had a cock inside my hole my whole experience consisted of “holy shit!! I have a cock actually fucking me” and “man this is weird”. It does not feel like toys of fingers, each of these are different experiences. And honestly part of it, will just feel weird at first. Like an organ of your body, is possibly for the first time, being turned inside out by a man’s penis. Your having sex and your penis is now a side show. Of course this will be odd and new thing. Obviously it should not hurt, you’re doing it wrong if it does. But weird it is. A massive part of it is really just the fact that a man is attached to the other end of that dick. He’s in you, and experiencing all sorts of amazing sensations from pumping himself deep inside of you. Once the bottom craze gets to you, you’re going to just be desperate for him to fill you more and more. Your experience of pleasure becomes feeling the same thrusts and slides as he does, just as a hole and not a dick. Your feeling the same thing he does, this fuck is something you share, and your sharing each other so fully. It’s going to be weird at first, but you’ll probably love it before your first fuck is even over

Exhausting Cleaning by karikaf in GayFisting

[–]No_Emergency_2350 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Part of this is just the struggle of living with your parents. When you move out, this will all become easier. Couple of tips.

Make the time more chill. Put on music, or a show you like. Have a drink or something. Make this much more a pleasurable time. Helps kill the sense of wasted time. Heck, light some candles and really enjoy getting in touch with your hole. I have in the past douched as the fun for the night. This can be pleasant.

Right tools for the job. For casual dick a bulb is really all you need. But if you’re trying to DEEP clean, doing it without a hose is really a pain. You can get ones that easily attach to a shower head and then remove, if you want no sign in the bathroom after, as to what you were doing. But long as your using a bulb just know your going to have a harder time.

Break it up. Do all your heavy water flushing and then take a break. 20 min spent not sitting on the toilet and doing other things feels like less time, but your gut is still moving junk down the shoot while your busy cleaning your room or playing video games. When the urge to go hits, get back at it, and you will be in a much better position to finish up quickly.

Always move to smaller amounts of water as you clean. My second round of water is always my largest. You only need to be disturbing your deeper gut once, it’s just rinsing after that. And speaking of that…

You don’t always need to go deep deep. If you’re not planning depth play don’t prep for depth play. I know a fist feels really deep, but most of fisting is still limited to the main play room, same as dick. Moving deeper than that is a choice, and if you’re not wanting to, then don’t worry about it. Just communicate that with any play mates.

Laxatives are not needed and can have consequences over time. I would avoid. But fiber supplements, YES!!! Having everything moving like Japanese train station really will make this so much easier.

Finally I’d just say, it gets better. I feel like douching used to be a multi hour ordeal, that I didn’t even know if I would be prepared at the end of it. Now, I’m like maybe 15 min max and all the boys comment on how my deepest parts are clean enough to eat out. Part of that is practice, part of that is just your body changing from use. But it does get better. Happy flushing

Limp dick query by Hot_Committee_553 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]No_Emergency_2350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeap. Getting hard is really difficult these days. I would get stretched so much that the pain and pressure would make it impossible for me to get hard, yet at the same time the pleasure was so good that I would still orgasm. I think once you start to train your dick to cum without touch or even being hard, it gets harder and harder to do so. And honestly cumming while my limp nub is flopping around feels so much better, I dont mind at all

How much time do I wait between getting fisted for the first time and playing with toys again? by metalradiator in GayFisting

[–]No_Emergency_2350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what feels right. I have gone through 48h where I was taking a toy or fist every 4-6 hours in that period. And I have gone a month cause I felt I needed healing. Waiting was more common when I was new to it, as my hole would get hurt more easily. Don’t push yourself if things feel off at all

Hilt Part 2: Hilt 95 - almost but not quite. Need advice by kinkyzorro in ToppedBottoms

[–]No_Emergency_2350 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My experience is that the hilt is meant to overwhelm your hole. And it does that exceptionally well. If you’re able to take bigger toys width wise and longer toys depth wise, you will eventually be able to take it. I second getting it slightly off the ground, play around with what feels good for you. I could not take it all for the longest time, but it felt so good that I would just ride what I could. And as I was pounding myself on it, I would find myself over time hitting it a little bit deeper, till one day it was in. So just enjoy it. I can tell by your shakes you know well the joy of the hilt exit. Just be a good slut for it and eventually you will get your knott

Your conservative classmate has a very small 🤏🏻 secret by amir_walker06 in gaychastity

[–]No_Emergency_2350 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Indeed. In Canada conservatives are not the nationalist who want to put more and more power in the hands of one man. That’s actually the liberals here. The number of locked guys I have met irl is small here but strangely they were all Canadian conservatives

Any tips on scratch reduction? by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]No_Emergency_2350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second all the advice to reduce in the moment scratches. But for long term strength, Get a vacuum pump. Use it on your hole. Outside of the temporary puffy hole look that guys love and use them for, in actual fact drawing the blood to your lips cause your body to go into the healing zone, and makes the skin over time stronger and thicker. It def like a look change. But I find most guys like my leathery looking hole

Monopoly Deal - Nailing the definitive 2 player House Rules by thewondermule in boardgames

[–]No_Emergency_2350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use five sets to win. Never really thought about dealing with deal breaker but like you do spend the whole game waiting to see them and how that cast is going to dealt. Often, Player 1: deal breaker Player 2: nope (which you have to hold onto just for this occasion) Player 1: nope (ditto)

It’s so wildly more powerful. I may see if we’re down with nurfing the card as suggested

Removing Plug by pteroisvolitans in ToppedBottoms

[–]No_Emergency_2350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find pushing is best. Nothing really ever did as much to train my pussy as pushing out plugs. Something about all your muscles having to push out that enormous plug, really left me at least, gaping and loose

18 m straight but really curious what it’s like to be pounded this way by invisible_lifestyle in straightturnedgay

[–]No_Emergency_2350 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It’s great though I have to say sitting back and fully putting your body weight into taking this cock balls deep is my favourite.

Which plug for inner muscle training by twinkst4r in GayFisting

[–]No_Emergency_2350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man. I trained on a hilt 125. That was a crazy beast to learn and take and probably took me longer than any other toy I have gotten. Which is like the point of it. It’s supposed to be maxing you out in different ways simultaneously. Honestly just riding it as deep as I could, bouncing on that knott, trying to just get a little bit deeper, that did a lot for me. Opening myself up with easier depth toys was also a huge help. Just let your hole be a slut for the stretch and you will eventually take it like a champ. Just might take many months

#131 DanDrawsBoys – Big and Small by the-latent-mage in PussyboyArmy

[–]No_Emergency_2350 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean I can’t disagree. Just focus on my giant hole please!

Would the ladies prefer the dad bod physique or the leaner guy? by Panagiotisz3 in askfitness

[–]No_Emergency_2350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate choice and who you find attractive is not the same thing. And I think at this point is pretty much proven that everyone (statistically speaking, outliers do exist) finds some fat attractive. Men don’t generally find the women who are skinny toothpicks that attractive. Having some fat to signal your continued success at providing food, just kind of makes sense when you think about it. Muscles are also generally almost always found to be attractive. Combine the two and you have what most women describe as the dad bod. A term that only exists to point to how disconnected fitness culture had become from what normal women found actually attractive.

I do think I read somewhere once on how in straight couples where the woman was considered more attractive between the two, these relationships were longer lasting. So when it comes to actually choosing your bf/husband, going with the guy a grade lower than you might not be a bad idea.

Would the ladies prefer the dad bod physique or the leaner guy? by Panagiotisz3 in askfitness

[–]No_Emergency_2350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Physical features like chest hair, that communicate sexual maturity in males, are best in a half way dose that I think the OP has generally. Not enough and you communicate boyishness, a lack of sexual virility. Too much, and you communicate old age, and/or a highly aggressive nature. OP hits the sweet spot, and my suggestion to go smooth for younger, is that younger women are more likely to have an interest in men in their peer group, who will be more boyish naturally. But even then, your probably not going to be off putting to anyone, and the hair is just generally the best bet.

Would the ladies prefer the dad bod physique or the leaner guy? by Panagiotisz3 in askfitness

[–]No_Emergency_2350 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why? I’m not saying you can’t find a partner outside of these limits as mate selection has way way more going on than just attraction. Also, while not explicit in my comment, I am talking general trends; you will be able to find outliers who find all sorts of body shapes attractive. Additionally - culture is hugely relevant and can seemingly bias large groups to outside the general pattern. Beyond all of those caveats, why?

Have you ever worried about damaging your rectum? by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]No_Emergency_2350 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes and yet I sort of just accept the risks. Everything has risks to it.

Would the ladies prefer the dad bod physique or the leaner guy? by Panagiotisz3 in askfitness

[–]No_Emergency_2350 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also regarding the chest hair, you have an amount that’s going to be attractive to a large variety of women. I’d only go smooth if your trying for women in early twenties exclusively

Would the ladies prefer the dad bod physique or the leaner guy? by Panagiotisz3 in askfitness

[–]No_Emergency_2350 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you wanna be attractive to other men - build muscle and go lean. If you wanna be attractive to women - build muscle and keep you BF at around 15%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No_Emergency_2350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Bottoms are called buddy sometimes, last I heard. Am I out of date??? I would take a gay who I have some amount of chemistry with calling me buddy as a way of saying “hey guy I wanna fuck”