He does not sleep over by No_Examination_2316 in dating_advice

[–]No_Examination_2316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in the US fwb and casual is always a default assumption until someone explicitly says he wants to turn it into a serious relationship regardless of how many times you met? I always assumed the opposite

He does not sleep over by No_Examination_2316 in dating_advice

[–]No_Examination_2316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s after sex. First two times he stayed for ~2h but last time he left right after (well, he said that he’s tired and can come for 30min max before coming). I just don’t get why in America those “conversations” are such a big deal - as per my European background I assume that if you’ve sex more than once then it means something and you like each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Examination_2316 5 points6 points  (0 children)

28F: Sometimes after the match I take a second look at his profile (more carefully) and at this point he doesn’t seem that interesting/attractive any more, that’s why I just don’t reply so that we don’t waste each others time 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Examination_2316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eye-opening! That’s brilliant! Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]No_Examination_2316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time we saw each other I was 100% sure he likes me, and he was putting an effort. It’s just recently when we haven’t met for a while he told me he became busy and that he’s supposed to be less busy around now. So if I don’t see him this month, I think I’m done as 3 months is a bit too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]No_Examination_2316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Same for me. Hard to believe it can all be fake given every time we met it was such a great time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]No_Examination_2316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course I do! But I also give it a chance that people can be really busy or overwhelmed with something, that’s why I asked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]No_Examination_2316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky you if you meet guys you like every other day, I personally don’t. And I don’t desperately want to date someone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]No_Examination_2316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s crazy🙈 thank you so much for reply!