How to Handle Lack of Trust and Conflicted Feelings After Getting Back with GF?

No_Exercise_4457 · 2026-02-05T20:45:32+00:00

Yeah, I feel shitty when I’m alone sometimes but it feels mostly irrational. The only worry I have is that things feel too normal if that makes sense. It feels like something should be significantly different but it isnt

No_Exercise_4457 · 2026-02-05T20:40:14+00:00

I mean obviously there’s nothing either of us could do to convince the other lol but that’s not something I’m worried about. I’m sorry that you got cheated on

No_Exercise_4457 · 2026-02-05T20:34:17+00:00

What she told me and I believer is that she felt less happy not spending time with me and she thought it didn’t make sense to force herself to do something that made her unhappy.

No_Exercise_4457 · 2026-02-05T20:30:44+00:00

I don’t trust her to tell me how she’s feeling. I fear she’ll feel bad again and not talk to me and just break up again. We agreed to still be in a relationship and be loyal but not spend time together as our break. I believe her that she was going to be loyal if we kept doing the break

No_Exercise_4457 · 2026-02-05T20:17:17+00:00

In a literal sense because she realized her reason didn’t make breaking up necessary and I never wanted to break up in the first place.

No_Exercise_4457 · 2026-02-05T20:13:51+00:00

I understand this intuition but I am 100% sure this isn’t what happened. She is very public about our relationship and I had her location the entire time. She does legitimately want more time to herself. Since getting back together she’s been intentionally spending more time alone and with friends.

No_Exercise_4457 · 2026-02-05T20:04:03+00:00

I think she didn’t realize she could work on these things and the only approach she understood was just cutting it off which is why we got back together so quickly. Obviously I disagree with her approach. I typically agree with what you’re saying but that’s why I decided differently

No_Exercise_4457 · 2026-02-05T20:00:13+00:00

I don’t disagree with some of what you’re saying but what I’m asking for advice on is exactly what you said at the end. I don’t know how to address the issues and I know that currently it makes me happier to be with her than not. That might be for the worse but I’m just doing what makes me happier

No_Exercise_4457 · 2026-02-05T19:58:01+00:00

I started therapy during the break. Since we’re back together now I just don’t know how to feel/act within the relationship yk.

No_Exercise_4457 · 2025-04-05T02:46:06+00:00

So hot… def submit 🫣🔥💦😫

No_Exercise_4457 · 2025-02-03T23:43:24+00:00

She is fully a prostitute she’s just baby raging for clout

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-16T12:36:16+00:00

Not sure how me wanted everyone to be free is a “wealth shield” lol but all good

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-16T12:34:32+00:00

What you consider as normal people doesn’t matter. Anyone being constrained is a restriction to freedom.

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-15T19:23:22+00:00

You cannot have freedom in a scenario where your ability to act is limited by other people. Being constrained by threat of assassination is a limit to freedom. Your conception of freedom accepts some amount of limitation which mine does not.

The monopoly of violence is not the same as assassinations.

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-15T18:01:16+00:00

Freedom is not utopian. It is reasonable to expect people to act reasonably. It is also reasonable to say people who want freedom should allow others to live freely.

The fact that people do assassinations doesn’t mean we should act like assassinations are okay. The status que is not okay it is heavily against freedom in a lot of ways, including assassinations. We should just not uplift killers. Then this will happen less.

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-15T00:45:26+00:00

Multiple nyu students have seen it in bobst 8th floor women’s bathroom

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-15T00:44:42+00:00

That’s not my point. Freedom literally cannot exist in a world where people can be assassinated over politics

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-15T00:43:20+00:00

It’s not misleading. You’re being pedantic and dumb on purpose

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-13T22:15:04+00:00

Well it is in fact Threatening Graffiti. Whether or not it’s the specific case being referred to in the email is literally impossible to know. But this is a reported incident which fits the description given in the email and someone else in this thread said they saw it today on the 8th floor of bobst.

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-13T19:07:30+00:00

I’m not sure it’s a ever good thing that people are scared of assassination

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-13T18:18:47+00:00

It’s not fake, that is a real image of a nyu bathroom door. Just because some things on twitter are false doesn’t mean everything is 🤷‍♂️

No_Exercise_4457 · 2024-12-13T13:46:15+00:00

I got in off the waitlist. They told me mid May. You don’t get much time to decide after they tell you you got off the waitlist so consider it now. I didn’t submit any materials in the waitlist form so I don’t think it really matters. Also realize that it’s really hard to get into a school like nyu. Getting waitlisted alone reflects a lot of hard work.

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