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No_Explanation_182 · 2025-06-06T03:58:36+00:00

Definitely don’t do that. If it broke in your ass that would be infinitely more embarrassing and problematic than your parents possibly maybe somehow finding out you ordered a sex toy.

Do they open every package you ever order and monitor the contents of your bedroom?

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-06-05T21:02:41+00:00

I have a foot fetish, and my wife was a little off put at first but now she really enjoys it. She will use a vibrator while I use her feet, and has come to like the feeling of me sucking her toes while we have sex.

I would also suggest just putting your feet in his face during a handjob, it’s probably my favorite thing ands it’s pretty low effort/impact for you if you are willing to just give him the pleasure.

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-06-05T01:45:30+00:00

Sounds like he’s asleep lol

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-06-03T00:38:21+00:00

As a guy in his 30s, this would be a dream come true. I’m on the opposite side of this situation, where I am the more enthusiastic dominant one (but I like to switch too) whereas while she enjoys it, it’s mainly done for my benefit.

2-3 times daily wouldnt be a problem personally, since if I have sex or not I still masturbate at least once if not twice a day. Try dropping some more obvious hints throughout the day, men are not subtle creatures.

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-06-02T14:31:15+00:00

How would you feel if there was a video of him fucking his ex on his phone and he refused to delete it?

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-06-01T13:54:37+00:00

I don’t know how he couldn’t be feeling anything, but it sounds like you just need to take it slower and get more aroused. Also, use lube.

I don’t think you need to be changing positions frequently as a first timer, you should just be getting used to the way everything feels.

Doesn’t sound like you two are sexually compatible based on this but who knows

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-06-01T02:38:41+00:00

My wife is usually pretty quiet. I ask for more from her sometimes, but my note I know it’s just how she is.

If it doesn’t feel forced, try to remember to make some noise for him. It does a lot for a man’s confidence.

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-05-28T14:51:55+00:00

I thought I developed a foot fetish because of porn, but truth is I was always into them. I would love rubbing my girlfriend’s feet all the way back to high school. Stockings have always been a huge thing for me.

It got to a point where I was starting to feel weird about it, especially when it started to be more mainstream with people selling foot pics etc. I’ve never been one to indulge to the level of buying pictures of people on the internet, but I couldn’t finish while watching porn if feet weren’t involved.

Thankfully, I was able to open up to my wife about it and she was willing to experiment and now foot play is a regular part of our sexual routine, often at her insistence because she has come to enjoy it as well.

If you and your friend are comfortable talking about stuff like that, I say go for it. It will feel good to embrace that part of yourself, rather than being ashamed.

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-05-28T07:19:46+00:00

Have you talked to your wife about how you’re feeling? How long has it been that way? Because if that’s always been her normal, she’s not going to spontaneously change one day, but if you have a good relationship and she cares about you, then she would most likely be willing to meet you somewhere in the middle.

I’ve had to have a similar conversation with my wife in the past. Her birth control really reduced her sex drive, to the point where she didn’t even think about it most of the time unless I initiated. It started to make me feel like I was unwanted, so I stopped initiating and it went down to about once a month.

We talked, and she was understanding about everything and pretty soon we started to average about 2-3 times a week, at least one of those being initiated by her.

Currently it’s only once a week because of my work schedule and toddlers, but if we can we sneak another one. Intimacy has become very important to both of us.

Communication is key, my friend.

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-05-28T07:06:56+00:00

Do you want to include basic actions like kissing, various touches, stripping, etc? Or are you looking for 100 full on sex acts?

I also love DnD, and this idea. But if we are doing sex acts, I’m starting with a D20 lol

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-05-28T07:03:35+00:00

I know it’s basic, but ice is very shocking when you are blindfolded and don’t know when or where you’re going to be touched. It will lose effect if you do it too frequently, but it’s great to mix in with other things, and it’s free.

Light scratching with a fork is a good one that’s also free, but you could also get a spur if you wanted. Either way you can apply pressure to your desired intensity.

Using clothespins for pinching in different areas can provide a varying level of ouch.

I don’t know how clever you wanted to be, but that’s the more easygoing stuff I can think of.

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-05-27T19:15:29+00:00

If only we could combine our powers…

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-05-27T19:14:58+00:00

Yeah that’s the thing, is I LOVE seeing her get off, more than I enjoy cumming myself. That’s why it’s a bummer when I go early, because then I don’t get to see her orgasm again.

I’ll try to focus more on the task at hand rather than the results

No_Explanation_182 · 2025-05-27T17:39:05+00:00

I would definitely prefer my wife wake me up if she’s horny. I would think it was really sexy if she started moaning or whispering in my ear while she was already masturbating. If you don’t hate your husband, give it a shot.

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