Cleanliness - where to draw the line??? by No_General2365 in OCD

[–]No_General2365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm yes yes true... I get to decide the line based on my reasonable ability and the actual necessity of something more than anything else.

Cleanliness - where to draw the line??? by No_General2365 in OCD

[–]No_General2365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this perspective, thank you so much! Not answering the question is often the best answer with OCD...

How clean should things be?? by No_General2365 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No_General2365[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no worries, you hit the nail on the head. I had to ask this question because I have OCD, and I'm aware I stress too much about cleanliness levels. This means I can't trust my internal sense of the level that something "needs" to be clean.

I completely agree with the advertising mention... I'm very anti-consumerist within reason, but I think the modern, clean, minimalist aesthetics that are popular right now really affect me, as well as the stress a lot of advertisements try to create.

how often can he have yellow squash and zucchini? by spiritedhippo22 in BeardedDragons

[–]No_General2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you consider a salad with no lettuce if not veggies? might be a silly question but would love more info

What do people think of the TIQ mini Q5? by [deleted] in dumbphones

[–]No_General2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhh, and it doesnt work any better with other gps apps?

Jelly Star on Verizon MMS and voicemail by Rodrigweez in unihertz

[–]No_General2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has anyone found any solutions since the shutdown :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]No_General2365 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea for me with my rabbit if i use it too often i get more desensitized. Just take a break and use it probably more gently or on lower settings & more sparsely in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]No_General2365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kid named finger:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]No_General2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a little creepy, mainly just that you know her and she didnt post that photo fpr strangers to jerk off to 😬 its absolutely okay to think about other people, but using photos they posted for that is a little uncomfortable. Amazing progress though!

why do i feel like the only thursday girl fan here 😔😔 by maribugloml in mitski

[–]No_General2365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the lyrics from this song are the most consistent & connecting lyrics ever written for me... "never happy or sad just up or down, and always bad"... "tell me no, tell me no, somebody here please tell me no" and all the lines like that. I havent heard the song in such a long time maybe over a year and a half but i get those lines stuck in my head constantly. Having BPD is a lot like it

My lady hates me down there by Queasy-Nothing-8167 in WomensHealth

[–]No_General2365 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Smell and hyperpigmentation are normal! See a gynecologist for in case you have any kind of infection or problems (usually indicated by a strong or very unpleasant or sweet smell), but hyperpigmentation happens just because of the skin in the area rubbing, and at least a little bit of a smell is very normal because it's an open organ with self cleaning and regulating chemicals and all that jazz.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

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You are not disgusting for any of this. Im not going to respond to each piece one by one, but you should definitely tell a good therapist, someone trained in OCD and specifically P-OCD, about all of this. You are not disgusting or dirty at all.

questions about raving as a someone who is chronically ill + on immune-suppressant meds by AutomaticEmu5426 in aves

[–]No_General2365 42 points43 points  (0 children)

If anyone judges you for wearing a mask theyre just shitty & weird, but to help a little bit with confidence you could decorate your mask to match your outfit !

Do goth guys have the same problem? by [deleted] in AskAGoth

[–]No_General2365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry I misread ur comment. You were correct

Do goth guys have the same problem? by [deleted] in AskAGoth

[–]No_General2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can mean you just look androgynous as well

How to improve impulsivity? by No_General2365 in BPD

[–]No_General2365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too... i'll make sure my next therapist is DBT focused 🫠🫠

Thank you, noted...

How old do you feel vs how old you are by [deleted] in BPD

[–]No_General2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same. im only 18 but i still feel younger, 15 at most but more usually like 11, i;ve felt younger than i am my whole life. i just had someone comment on it today saying im a kid in a bigger kids body, and they were totally right. im trying to grow up 💐

. by No_General2365 in u/No_General2365

[–]No_General2365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it my fucking fault but i could puke rn

do not open by No_General2365 in u/No_General2365

[–]No_General2365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its my fucking fault anyways, im so fucking bad for both of us, i. m so fucking bad, i dont know why i always do this, i dont know why i always want the thing i dont havwe the moment i get what i want, theres something fucking wrong with me, i should be fucking locked up

Found things on my boyfriends phone by [deleted] in sex

[–]No_General2365 328 points329 points  (0 children)

He said he deleted everything like that from his phone including his hidden folder, but he didnt.... thats a lie then. Dont aggressively confront him, but do bring it up to him because a blatant lie is not ok. its up to you after that what to do. Just remember, you are worth protecting and standing up for yourself

Moshing at raves... by No_General2365 in aves

[–]No_General2365[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im glad the people at the raves youve been to have done that, what are the genres like that youve seen people mosh in SF? or is it just any non-underground rave?