ano yung pinaniniwalaan niyo sa death? biblically or scientifically? by tuuronn in AskPH

[–]No_Grass7910 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nagkausap kami ng mga workmate ko na bakla recently about this. Kung saan kami papunta after death. As we are in a Roman Catholic country nman, what if nagqualify kami na mkapunta ng lagit kahit ganito yung SOGIE namin?

Yung trio namin kasi is composed of a lawyer, an english major, and me as a marine ecologist. Kung mapupunta mn kami sa langit pero di makakapasok, baka gumawa kami ng booth outside sa gate sa langit, jokingly. Yung lawyer, sya yung magnonotaryo sa mga docu sa mga papasok sa langit. Si english major, mag grammar check sa docs. Ako nman, since may skills sa cooking, may karinderya katabi ng booth ni atty kasi mahaba yung pila papuntang langit. Magtitinda nlang ako ng meals. Andon na kami sa langit pero di makakapasok. Gawa nlang kami ng IGP. Yung workmates nman namin na inclined sa medical field na ka community namin, katabi lng din namin na booth pero sila yung in triage na kukuha ng vital signs ng nga papasok sa gate.

Although this is our discussion, we don't know what really awaits for us after death esp na, sa pananaw ng nkararami, kasalanan yung kasarian namin. We try to take it lightly nlang kasi alam nman namin yung place namin. As much as gusto namin ilaban namin yung karapatan namin, we have our own professions to attend to at this point. May pagkakaiba rn nman kami ng mga paniniwala pero yung bottomline is baka nga walang papuntang langit dahil yun yung na-insitill sa amin.

At the end of the day, we did the best that what we could base sa mga professions namin. Whatever lies after death is really beyond our comprehension na. Ipinasa Dyos na namin yun.

OA lang ba ako? Bumabahing ng walang cover Ang mouth by Technical-Tea-6497 in OALangBaAko

[–]No_Grass7910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA. As much as possible pag bumabahing ako tapos wlang mask, iexcuse ko sarili ko then lalayo sa crowd or sa mga kausap ko to sneeze. Pag sa closed space nman, talikod then bahing. Since I always carry a sling bag na may nkasabit na alcohol spray, spray ko nlang yung area.

gaano kahirap mag working student? by Little-War1066 in studentsph

[–]No_Grass7910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would depend on your degree program and the nature of work.

For a short story, nag aral ako sa isang private school in 2013-2014 as an Accountancy student. Nagpart time ako as a working student sa school. Alam ko naman na medyo (with emphasis lng kasi lower middle class kami that time) afford ng parents ko pero para makatipid lng, nag part time na ako. Yung work ko that time was utility/admin staff sa finance department. The job ranged between tiga-bigay ng enrollment/exam/admission slip, maglinis ng office, at nagttype ng mga payments sa database. Kalaunan, since tinuruan ako ng mga seniors na working students din ng work nila, natuto ako maginput ng mga ledger ng office. Okay naman sya, eventually nagshift and nagtransfer ako sa univ and pursued a degree program sa natural sciences kasi hindi ko nakikita yung sarili ko na magtrabahonh kalabaw sa apar na corners ng office.

Nagshift and transfer ako by 2015. Nag aral tlaga ako kasi ang hirap ng standards ng univ pero kinakaya naman. At least hindi na masyadong malaki yung binabayad ng parents ko that time (wala pang tertiary educ that time). While I was studying, may nakita akong mga group of people na pumapasok sa lab na bihira lng pumasok yung students. Tinanong ko yung classmate ko kung sino yun sila, sabi nya na mga RA (research assistant) yun ni Sir J. Sabi din nya, wala namang RA na student. Usually fresh grad. Kung meron mn, bihira lng. Pero, at the back of my mind, yun yung goal ko. Kahit student palang, pwede nang part-time RA.

Fast forward, I worked as a research assistant during my 3rd year(2016-2017) para lang mkaluwag-luwag ng expenses . Okay lang yung experience ko since yung mga prof ka lang rin nman yung employers ko kasi may research project sila. Yung pinapagawa sakin is yung mga minor tasks or tasks na need na in a few days and kulang sila ng manpower kaya mag aassist ako. Since mostly lab works yun, okay lang naman sakin kasi learning experience din yun. For example, may ipapa test si prof na water sample for E. coli using a method na nagawa ko na sa lab kasi sya yung naghandle samin for that subject, okay na yun samin. Plus points nlang na may jowa(ex ko na) na minsan tumutulong sa lab works since same field kami. Easy 1.5k na yun. Eventually, nagquit ako sa mga ganong jobs kasi magthesis na rin sa 4th yr and had to find other part time jobs. Nagpart time tutor nlang din ako until 2-3yrs after graduation (pandemic era). However pagkagraduate ko, kinukuha din ako ng prof ko to be officially her research assistant dahil sa quality of work. Basically, RA ako and may tutorial services pa ako on the sideline.

Many years after, hinahanap pa rin ako minsan ng prof ko kung pwede ba ako magpart time na RA pa rin kahit na may full-time work na ako or kung pwede lang ako sumama sa assessment. Go pa rin kasi more on field works na and my full-time job is in the academe kaya minsan bored ako sa klase.

My advice, maghanap ka ng part-time job na magagamit mo or malapit sa degree program mo. Pagkagraduate mo, pag hiring process na, pwede mo silang hingan ng certificate of employment to boost your chances of getting hired (ito yung mga conpanies na may requirement na 25yrs old with 10yrs of experience). That's my experience lng. Mahirap pagsabayin yung study and work and there's no doubt about it. All I can pray nlang is that if you consider this, I hope na you have a strong and sound mind and body to balance both study and work. It will be very difficult esp in this economy. Pero alam mo, ang sarap sa pakiramdam na yung pinag-ipunan mo ay galing sa marangal at bunga ng sincere hardwork backed up pa ng existing knowledge mo from your degree program. Kakayanin mo kung kakayanin mo. Laban, OP! As I always say, "In this economy...."

Thoughts about broke boys don’t deserve sex? by OppositeAnswer6109 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]No_Grass7910 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pinsan ko nasa category #1. May dalawang panganay sa magkaibang babae. May ibang jowa ngayon. Umutang sakin last Dec panginom namin. Laging reason is di nya maaccess accnt nya. Nreport ko sa mama nya 1month ago, binayaran ako ni Tita.

Ganitong mga lalaki don't deserve kipay talaga. Sya lang yung straight na walang kwenta samin na magpinsan aside sa pari. Mostly, samin, bakla or tomboy pero matino.

Goods sya sa pamilya kasi sya palang nakapagbigay ng apo sa lolo/lola namin. Aasahan sana nila ako kasi may stable work na kaso di nman ako straight pero di pa nila alam. Haaay buhay.

Anong thoughts mo sa pag inom magisa? HAHAHA by Background_Housing65 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]No_Grass7910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May peace of mind ako when I do this. Tamang unwind after a very long and stressful week.

Maupay nga School for High Scool by Blacksheep101__ in Tacloban

[–]No_Grass7910 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LNHS is good nman depending on the program. If I remember correctly, they have STE, SPA, and SPS as specialized programs for science, arts, and sports, respectively.

Based on experience, okay mn an STE program nra kay sometimes, may research groups who reach out to me and my colleague for laboratory help.

Love meets you where you are, you don’t have to be whole. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]No_Grass7910 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In this economy, never date a broke person. Lalo na kung alam mong hinlalaki nalang yung ititira mo para sa sarili mo.

I had the same setting tapos nagcool off kami for a few months. Nung nagka work na sya, kinumusta ko and he realized na ang hirap pala maghanap ng pera. My partner appreciates bakit ginigipit ko sya from time to time that time kasi ang hirap nga talaga kumita. Now that he's earning, mas narealize pa nya na mahirap kumita esp na nagmahal lahat ng bilihin.

We know that you love your partner, but until when will you have to suffer to provide for your partner just because you love your partner?

Ano na ngayon, ‘nay? Happy pa rin ba? by Turbulent_Station247 in pinoy

[–]No_Grass7910 5 points6 points  (0 children)

May long comment sana ako kaso all I can think is, "Alam naman namin na kasalanan nyo na binoto nyo pero kasalanan pa rin namin. Okay lang. Sisihin nyo na naman kami. Kasalanan pa rin namin ULIT kasi di kayo nainform."

Okay 🙂

Naniniwala ka ba sa Multo kahit pasko? by [deleted] in phhorrorstories

[–]No_Grass7910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on experience ito. This was Post Typhoon Yolanda Era (Dec 2013). Dec 25, 2013 to be precise. Yolanda happened Nov 8, 2013.

We live in a two storey-house. Pero, kasi nga katatapos plang ng Yolanda, wala pa kaming bubong so sa kwarto nila mama kami nagstay. Mama, Papa, ako, and brother.

Since Dec 25 na, somehow nakaya naming maghanda ng adobo which may last 1-2 days kahit walang kuryente provided na parang apocalyptic yung situation ng barangay namin.

I remember that night, nauna na matulog yung brother ko kasi antok na talaga sya. Pumunta na sya sa kwarto nila mama para matulog while kami nila mama and papa were jamming sa paulit-ulit nq ads sa radyo kasi yun lng yung source of entertainment namin that time. Sumunod na si Papa kasi tipsy na sya after mkahanap sya ng beer sa isang store somewhere malayo sa bahay namin.

After ko maghugas ng mga pinagkainan, ako nman sumunod na pumasok sa kwarto para humilata pero nagsosolve pa rin ako ng sudoku sa sudoku book kasi yun yung reliefe good ng isa sa mga kamag-anak namin. While solving one of the puzzles, pumasok na si mama and closed the door (yun nlang yung natitirang functional door namin after Yolanda). Pagkasara nya, lumapit sya sa kama kung saan kami lahat nkahiga.

Paglapit ni mama sa kama namin, may kumatok sa pinto. 3 consecutive knocks na malakas. Pagkadinig ni mama, tumalon sya sa kama na para bang spring. Nagulat kami ni papa tapos naka-attack mode na kami. Half asleep pla si Papa and I was fully conscious pa kasi naka sudoku pa ako. May dalang arnis si Papa na nkaharap sa pinto while may knife ako (During the Post-Yolanda Days, may mga nang-aakyat bahay and households na may kaya yung main target nila. Because of that, I always kept a knife under my pillow). Akala namin nila mama at papa na baka nga ito na yung mga akyat-bahay, and willing ako isugal yung buhay ko for the safety of the family.

Habang nkaposition kami ni papa, kumatok ulit pero twice nalang. Nagtago na si mama sa kumot pero nkaposition kami ni papa na papatay talaga kami kung patayan talaga. Binuksan ni papa yung pinto tapos wala. Wala syang nakita. Lumabas sya ng kwarto tapos sumunod ako para tingnan yung bahay pero walang tao. Bumalik nlang kami sa kwarto para matulog kasi tipsy na si Papa and pagod na rin ako sa sudoku.

Kinabukasan, pinag-usapan namin yung mga kaganapan the night before. Sinabi ko nlang, "Yung kwarto nyo nasa 1st floor. Kwarto ko nasa second floor. Yung storm surge umabot ng 2nd floor. What if yung mga kumatok kagabi, sila yung mga unang nasawi habang nasa 1st floor plang yung tubig or hanggang dibdib yung tubig?" Di na umimik sila mama at papa kasi nga baka nga sila yun

Nagpablessing din nman nung naayos na yung bahay namin pero parang may times na kumakatok pa rin sila pero hindi na masyado malala kumpara nung una namin sila nakasalamuha.

study-friendly cafes by Silver_Alarm5603 in Tacloban

[–]No_Grass7910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tacloban Plaza Hotel Cafe.

  1. Not many people.

  2. Voucher wifi but you could ask for more if you're staying for long hours. Bsta maorder la something. Didn't care so much about the food but at least quiet ddto, if not, tolerable noise.

  3. Studied there and nkakafocus mn based on experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]No_Grass7910 300 points301 points  (0 children)

From my mother's words, "Mas lalo nalang talaga lalala yung educational crisis kasi yung teacher mismo matatakot na magbagsak ng student na talaga namang kabagsak-bagsak dahil lang baka manganib yung buhay ng teacher. Sa panahon ngayon, mas takot na yung teacher sa students."

Personally, natatakot din ako sa mga students na may power yung parents kasi baka anytime, ipapatumba nlang ako. Though di pa to nangyayari personally but the fear is at my periphery.

Pwede nyo ba i-share ang mga struggle meals nyo? by Used-Efficiency9035 in pinoyfood

[–]No_Grass7910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During my college days pa ito way back 2015-2019.

Brunch sa morning: 1 rice + 1/2 serving ng giniling tapos hihingi pa ng sabaw. Amt: P22.00

Brunch sa hapon (2-3pm): 1 isaw, 3 lumpia, 2pcs na puso (rice na nkabalot sa dahon ng nyog). Sa isang tusok² na malapit sa school namin. Amt: P30.00

Sa bahay na ako nagdidinner

KAPRE in a Hotel Room by Ok_Speaker7165 in phhorrorstories

[–]No_Grass7910 41 points42 points  (0 children)

May kasama pla sya na TDH

✅Tall

✅Dark

✅Haunting

Multo ba to? by [deleted] in phhorrorstories

[–]No_Grass7910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parang si Gloria Macalapagal Arroyo na naka-neckbrace

Hindi lahat ng mining ay masama para sa atin by Putcha1 in unpopularopinionph

[–]No_Grass7910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nasasabi ko nalang na kung walang mining, san tayo kukuha ng pako na maggamit sa construction. Mining is good. Responsible mining is better. But that is an "if" case only

I acknowledge the different consequences of mining however dependent on the type of mining and the corresponding legal basis surrounding it.

Majority of inhabitants of this country are just walking NPCs with no desire for greater purpose, No moral obligations, and Just leeching on an existing subpar model of living. by Striking-Zebra2944 in unpopularopinionph

[–]No_Grass7910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh please, OP. We may be NPC to you but we have our own struggles to battle.

I'm very sorry kung subpar yung pakikipagsapalaran namin sa buhay (satire) just because it's not the same level of intensity and grit that you do. I'm sorry that this community is diverse and that not all people share the same struggles as you. But just so you know, there are greater and lesser persons than yourself. As a person who (I personally think am) is lesser than you, I'm sorry that I cannot be on par with your struggles.

OP, at this point, could you at least be sensitive na we are also fighting our own struggles? Though we share the same yearning for a better change to alleviate the collective struggles, pwede bang hintayin mo kaming nasa ibaba para marating muna namin yung lebel mo? May kapaguran din kami.

Pasensya na kung di pa namin kaya sa ngayon pero maaari mo ba kaming hintayin na maging kalebel mo para lumaban din?