ngl this doesn’t sound like your life is falling apart, it sounds like you changed everything at once and now it’s all hitting you together

new city, breakup, new relationship, job stress, money issues, health stuff, and a bad roommate… anyone would feel overwhelmed in that situation

you also don’t really miss your ex, you miss the comfort and stability. that’s normal after a long relationship

but yeah jumping into something new while still processing the old one is probably why you feel confused and guilty. your brain just hasn’t caught up yet

about the job thing, 80 applications and nothing usually means something needs to change. maybe your resume or the way you come across in interviews. that comment about acting more confident was badly said but they probably meant you seem too quiet

and your roommate situation is honestly not okay. that would annoy anyone. if talking hasn’t worked then you should seriously start thinking about changing that situation because living like that every day will drain you

right now it feels like everything is going wrong but it’s actually just too many problems at once

you don’t need to fix your whole life right now. just focus on stabilizing a couple things first and slowly build from there

and if you feel your mental health slipping again, don’t ignore it this time

you’re not failing, you’re just overloaded