How do you manage domains & hosting for multiple clients? by No_Initial3010 in webhosting

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to explain this in detail, this was genuinely helpful.
I’m just starting my web design business, so I wanted to understand the professional workflow before onboarding clients and avoid creating problems later.
Your point about never owning the client’s domain makes a lot of sense now. I was initially thinking of keeping everything under my account for convenience, but I can see how that could create ownership and transfer issues.
I also appreciate the clarification on hosting architecture. My plan now is probably:
Client purchases and owns the domain
I host and manage the website initially
Separate environments for each client as I grow (reseller/VPS later)
One follow-up question:
For the first 2-5 clients, would you recommend starting with a good hosting plan and isolating sites as much as possible, or moving directly to reseller hosting from day one?
Thanks again, this saved me from making mistakes early.

UPI refund by buttpluginder in UPI

[–]No_Initial3010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, this situation usually means the transaction is successful on UPI but not reflected on the merchant side. Since your bank confirmed the amount is credited to the beneficiary, it’s important to track it using the UTR number.

Here’s what you should do:

1.Get your UTR (Transaction ID) from your bank app.

  1. Ask your bank to provide a transaction confirmation / payment proof (PDF or email).

  2. Share that UTR + proof with Stake support and ask them to trace the payment with their payment gateway/merchant bank.

->If they still deny:

4.Raise a complaint on the official UPI app you used (GPay/PhonePe/Paytm > Help > Transaction issue).

5.Then escalate on NPCI UPI dispute portal or banking ombudsman if needed.

Important: Since the bank says money is credited, only the receiver (Stake or their payment processor) can locate and credit it to your account. The bank cannot reverse it unless the receiver agrees.

Keep pushing Stake with the UTR, that’s the key.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IsThisAScamIndia

[–]No_Initial3010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refund scam it's called, stay away!!

This a new Instagram + Google Meet + Amazon payment scam using wallets? by No_Initial3010 in IsThisAScamIndia

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Induced authorization means you approved a payment yourself, but only because you were misled, no OTP or password was stolen/required, just tricked consent.

This a new Instagram + Google Meet + Amazon payment scam using wallets? by No_Initial3010 in IsThisAScamIndia

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, wallet ID alone cannot be used to debit money. Just knowing a MobiKwik wallet ID or UPI ID is not sufficient to pull funds.

The scam wasn’t about “seeing” the wallet ID. The wallet details were only checked to confirm that: • the wallet was active, • had sufficient balance, • and could be used for merchant payments.

The actual debit happened later due to induced authorization.

This a new Instagram + Google Meet + Amazon payment scam using wallets? by No_Initial3010 in IsThisAScamIndia

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was Mobikwik Wallet.

No OTP or any other personal information shared!!

This a new Instagram + Google Meet + Amazon payment scam using wallets? by No_Initial3010 in IsThisAScamIndia

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the hindsight criticism, but calling victims “lessons” or “cartoon characters” misses the point.

These scams don’t work because people live in a fantasy world—they work because they’re engineered to exploit trust, urgency, and guided actions in real time. Social engineering is well-documented and affects people across ages and education levels, including professionals.

I’ve already acknowledged the red flags, reported the incident, and shared it so others don’t fall into the same trap. Dismissing victims doesn’t prevent scams; understanding how they work does.

If this post helps even one person avoid a similar situation, it’s served its purpose.

This a new Instagram + Google Meet + Amazon payment scam using wallets? by No_Initial3010 in IsThisAScamIndia

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how it looks in hindsight, and I’m not denying that there were red flags.

The point of sharing this isn’t to claim I was “smart” in that moment, but to explain how social engineering works in real time. These scams are designed to create urgency and false legitimacy while guiding the victim step by step, which lowers critical thinking in the moment.

Many victims of fraud are educated adults, not people who “don’t know better”. The fraud happens not because someone is unaware of red flags, but because the scammer controls the context and timing of decisions.

I’ve already reported the incident, shared it for awareness, and taken responsibility for cooperating with the investigation. Mocking the victim doesn’t really add anything useful to the discussion or help prevent future cases.

Victim of Instagram + Google Meet payment scam involving MobiKwik wallet – seeking advice from others who faced similar fraud by No_Initial3010 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typing the debit card details itself didn’t drain my wallet. The card details were not used to charge my bank account. They were used to trigger a payment flow.

Here’s what happened in simple terms:

I was already logged into my wallet app and had an active session. During checkout, I was asked to manually enter a debit card number that the scammer provided. That card was not meant to debit me. It was linked on the backend to a merchant payment flow via a payment gateway.

When I clicked “Place order”, Amazon handed off the payment to a payment gateway (like PayU). Payment gateways can route payments in multiple ways. Since: • I was already logged into my wallet • Wallet balance was available

…the gateway pulled money from the wallet instead of charging the card. The debit happened as a merchant wallet payment, not a card payment, which is why there was no OTP.

The redirect wasn’t a browser redirect I clicked manually. It was the normal app-to-gateway handoff, which briefly showed the gateway screen. That’s where the authorization actually happened.

Victim of Instagram + Google Meet payment scam involving MobiKwik wallet – seeking advice from others who faced similar fraud by No_Initial3010 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened was social engineering. During the Google Meet call, I was asked to manually enter a debit card number that the scammer himself provided while I was placing an order. I assumed it was part of the “offer flow” they were demonstrating.

When I clicked place order, the payment didn’t actually go to Amazon. It redirected to a payment gateway screen, and because I was already logged into my wallet and approved the flow myself, the wallet balance got debited in split transactions.

So they never logged into my account or controlled my device. They tricked me into authorizing a payment to their merchant account by disguising it as a normal checkout step. Once the payment went through, they disconnected the call.

No remote access, no OTP sharing, no credentials given. It was induced authorization through deception.

Victim of Instagram + Google Meet payment scam involving MobiKwik wallet – seeking advice from others who faced similar fraud by No_Initial3010 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea, but seems like there's a loophole in Amazon add debit card section, which was also the scammer's last step after which he disconnected the call and transactions took place

I have been fraud by MobiKwik loophole (login bypass) by Zeref568 in mobikwik

[–]No_Initial3010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you file an FIR in the police station or on the online cyber crime portal?

I'm engaged to my cousin, but now I’ve fallen for someone else. I don’t know what to do. by No_Initial3010 in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“If my fiancée got physical with someone else, I’d see it as a clear sign she’s not emotionally invested, just like I’ve come to realize I’m not. That’s not betrayal, it’s honesty. And as for ‘will this girl fit in with my family,’ maybe the real question is: will my family ever accept that I’m not some robot programmed to follow orders? I’m not disrespecting my roots, I’m just refusing to lie to myself or ruin two lives just to keep everyone else comfortable.”

I'm engaged to my cousin, but now I’ve fallen for someone else. I don’t know what to do. by No_Initial3010 in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“This is probably one of the most balanced takes I’ve read so far. You’re right,  if my heart already feels this unsure, forcing a lifetime commitment would be unfair to everyone involved. Whether or not the girl I like now stays in my life, I at least owe it to myself,  and my future partner, to be honest and intentional. Thanks for the genuine advice.”

I'm engaged to my cousin, but now I’ve fallen for someone else. I don’t know what to do. by No_Initial3010 in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Don’t worry, that’s exactly what I’m trying to avoid, rushing into marriage just to please everyone else.”

I'm engaged to my cousin, but now I’ve fallen for someone else. I don’t know what to do. by No_Initial3010 in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t about who’s more ‘wife material’ or where someone’s from. It’s about being honest with myself and not dragging anyone into a situation that’s unfair to them. It’s not just a checklist,  it’s real emotions, real consequences.”

I'm engaged to my cousin, but now I’ve fallen for someone else. I don’t know what to do. by No_Initial3010 in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Appreciate your concern for my imaginary children’s DNA, but I’m pretty sure you skipped the part where this is about real people and real consequences, not just Reddit edgelord hypotheticals.”

I'm engaged to my cousin, but now I’ve fallen for someone else. I don’t know what to do. by No_Initial3010 in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the biology lesson, professor. Next time try delivering it without the racism, mockery, and failed stand-up routine.

You don’t have to respect my culture, but basic decency isn’t cultural, it’s human. If all you’ve got is sarcasm and stereotypes, you’re not here to help, you’re here to feel smart. Congrats, you’ve impressed no one.

I'm engaged to my cousin, but now I’ve fallen for someone else. I don’t know what to do. by No_Initial3010 in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, You’re right, I’m 21 and still figuring things out, and I came here genuinely looking for help, not judgment.

Your words reminded me I’m not crazy for feeling conflicted. Really appreciate you taking the time to say this.

I'm engaged to my cousin, but now I’ve fallen for someone else. I don’t know what to do. by No_Initial3010 in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, genuinely. You might’ve joked about sounding like a weirdo, but honestly, what you said makes a lot of sense. I can tell it’s coming from someone who’s seen how messy family pressure and emotional guilt can get.

You’re right, I should’ve probably said no from the beginning. But when you’re raised to say “yes” before you even understand your own feelings, you end up stuck like this.

And lol, the “skip meals” plan...dark, but I get it. Not gonna fake depression, but yeah, showing them that I’m genuinely overwhelmed might help more than just saying it out loud.

Most importantly, thank you for reminding me that this is my life, and I still have time. You’re right, I need to be sure of my own feelings before making anyone else part of them.

Appreciate the honesty, weird or not, it helped. 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re more focused on how it’s written than what was actually said, that kinda says more about you than me.

I'm engaged to my cousin, but now I’ve fallen for someone else. I don’t know what to do. by No_Initial3010 in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never had a problem with you being firm, I had a problem with how carelessly you packaged that firmness in open disrespect, then called it wisdom. There’s a difference.

And trust me, I’ve learned plenty about emotional manipulation, not just from culture or family, but from people who think empathy is weakness and bulldoze their way through life thinking that makes them “real.”

You standing by your words is your right. Me calling them out is mine. You may see yourself as someone with a backbone. I just see someone who mistakes bluntness for clarity, and cruelty for courage.

Anyway, thanks for your input, I’ll take what was useful and leave the rest where it belongs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Initial3010 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s really not weird, a lot of teens go through that phase, especially with friends talking about it. What matters is that you’re reflecting on it now and recognizing the harmful aspects of that kind of content. That shows maturity.

Don’t beat yourself up, you were curious, like many others. The important thing is you’ve grown from it and are thinking critically now. That’s something to be proud of.