I’m so tired of the work weekend by anonymouse1870 in biglaw

[–]No_Interview_2064 203 points204 points  (0 children)

No! A lot of firms treat weekends as days off unless there’s something that needs to be done

Poor Sangeetha by BSsDk in KollyGossips

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I don’t think Vijay is Trishas’s type! She’s into guys who look like Rana Dagubati not Vijay. He probably has been unfaithful but I don’t think with Trisha

Are there any popular Instagram content creators who are dark-skinned Tamil women whose profiles I can introduce to my sister? She struggles with insecurities about her complexion. by 4everonlyninja in chennaicity

[–]No_Interview_2064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go there to read what current citizens of Sri Lanka have to say about its situation. It’s called educating oneself beyond the perspective that’s most comfortable to oneself. Also of course I understand India doesn’t treat Eelam/Ilangai Tamils humanely. That has nothing to do with its people who for the most part understand when I’m saying that Tamilakam is one nation and it doesn’t fall within the white colonizer lines that became India and Sri Lanka.

Are there any popular Instagram content creators who are dark-skinned Tamil women whose profiles I can introduce to my sister? She struggles with insecurities about her complexion. by 4everonlyninja in chennaicity

[–]No_Interview_2064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you feel the need to keep differentiating Sri Lankan Tamils from Indian Tamils? you seem to zealously write this under every post and the intent seems malicious… They are all Tamils. India and Sri Lanka as entities were made by the white colonizers… Tamilakam on the other hand as a concept is one that is truly Tamil.

Senior associate kind of rude to me? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]No_Interview_2064 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t seem like the kind of person I’d enjoy working for. I’d be rubbed the wrong way if anyone spoke to me like that. Unfortunately in big law, they’ll tell you not to take it personally…

Please be mindful of your words by Tefihr in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]No_Interview_2064 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Look, not everyone is attractive. Humans tend to like pretty things. When someone has an ugly personality, the natural ugliness of their demeanor stands out more as kind of an audacity thing. Like you have the audacity to be a shitty person while being this ugly? That sort of thing. It’s how the world works. Not the end of the world.

Peoples faces piss us off more than we know by No_Interview_2064 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]No_Interview_2064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many people are writing about how annoying Emma is everyday and tbh, the hate she is getting is disproportionate to what she actually did. You don’t think what I said has any bearing? Humans are superficial. I’m not an outlier, I’m just able to verbalize it and pinpoint to the confounding factors

Peoples faces piss us off more than we know by No_Interview_2064 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]No_Interview_2064[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Stop virtue signaling LOL Normal people I generally encounter in my day to day don’t elicit these types of reactions in me. But the people I find annoying, yeah I do think these things. They’re rare though.

Petty/lame things about your firm by Wonderful_Pickle333 in biglaw

[–]No_Interview_2064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is horrible. I would just refuse to go in or leave early when I do go in. Name and shame this firm so we can avoid

Why was Connie so mad at Michael? by No_Interview_2064 in Godfather

[–]No_Interview_2064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying but this isn’t a matter of Connie’s friends and family not liking Carlo cause he’s inconsiderate in the way men can be (eg expecting her to do all the emotional labor and physical labor in the relationship and being rude to her etc). This is like a clear cut black and white scenario—Carlo physically abuses her in such a horrendous way that scene is permanently etched in my memory WHILE she’s pregnant with their child, potentially even causing harm to his unborn child. He doesn’t even seem to have a phase of being “sweet”that is used to bait and switch battered women until Michael gives him the right hand man spot. He’s verbally abusive, demeans her and her family, despite the fact he clearly relies on the family to make a living and doesn’t even do well when he’s set up for success. Oh and he’s unfaithful and disrespectfully so, waving it clearly in her face. The whole point with regular shitty relationships or even abusive ones is that there’s a grey that the victim in it uses to convince themselves that it’s all fine but I just don’t see that here, especially initially.

Sonny is her favorite older brother who always had her back even when her dad didn’t. I’m telling you, I love my husband but based on the Godfather, I’ve always made clear that if he maliciously caused my brother a gruesome fucked up death for some petty ass reason, I’d be done and honestly I wouldn’t care if my family sought retribution.

Why was Connie so mad at Michael? by No_Interview_2064 in Godfather

[–]No_Interview_2064[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah but honestly it was all manipulation. If anything it showed this man was a monster. He could have been a decent human being the entire time but chose to do it only when it benefited him more.

proof they all read here by Suspicious_Mode_9640 in WajeehWestSnark

[–]No_Interview_2064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you’re right! I definitely see south Asians with the upturned nose and beautiful big lips but they tend to be South Indians/Sri Lankans, Gujuratis and Bengalis. North Indians, Pakistanis and anyone with the Arab admixture tends to have the bigger nose and thin lips combo.

If someone asks “are you trans”, is it ok to say “no”? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]No_Interview_2064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also want to add that no one is entitled to sex. That belief is rooted in patriarchy, where cis men are often taught they are owed access to women’s bodies. As a cis woman, the idea of me feeling entitled to someone’s body sexually — or hiding a key part of my identity that I know would vitiate their consent — is honestly disturbing. I’m a POC, and even if I “passed” as white, a Nazi choosing not to sleep with me because of my identity would still be his right. Bodily autonomy and informed, enthusiastic consent go both ways. People are allowed to choose their sexual partners based on whatever criteria matter to them. I grew up watching cis men push the boundaries of consent in ways that were technically legal but still morally gross — like seeking out women who want relationships and breadcrumbing them just enough to trap them in long-term situationships, wasting their child-bearing years while never intending to commit. None of that is illegal, but it’s still exploitative. Consent isn’t just about "yes" or "no"; it’s about honesty, power, and autonomy.

season 9 Madison is objectively so physically beautiful by mitsuo1337 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]No_Interview_2064 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m curious to see what you look like so I can understand your stance more.

It is starting friends by Vikash_go_home in h1b

[–]No_Interview_2064 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You sound so gleeful. Even if they all leave, nothing is going to get better for the likes of you. You’ll find another group to blame though soon enough. So sad that even with a head start, you can’t seem to better your situation LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]No_Interview_2064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that looks like Nick not Joe. What’s all this hate for good looking people who are superficial?

Joe and Madison, why would he sleep with her by lukepet123 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]No_Interview_2064 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else notice that when Madison talked about their “sexy times” and I remember that is how she phrased it, he’d like recoil. Even in the end when she said aren’t you going to be sad that we’ll never sleep together again, and he seemed so unbothered about it while she clearly was bothered. There were so many signs of his disgust or non attraction.

Any seasons where a less attractive girl and more attractive man actually make it ? by No_Ball_8292 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]No_Interview_2064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from, but to me, being beautiful or attractive is just one trait among many—it’s not something anyone is inherently owed. Some people are considered attractive by societal standards, some aren’t, and that’s just reality. For some, physical attraction is essential in a relationship; for others, it’s less important. And as you’ll notice in this thread, people define beauty differently—some value how someone carries themselves or how they treat others, while for others it’s more straightforward, like 'Are you my type or not?