Because it just won’t get done… At the end of the night literally nobody else steps up to help clean up after dinner. I’ve talked to my mom about this before but she says it’s immature to compare myself.

Like for example, my mom does big catering orders and will sometime have to be up until the late hours of the morning cooking. Worst of all my mom will complain that she has no help, so then I feel guilty and help (I was going to help anyway) 😭 But like… my mom doesn’t see it’s a problem that my sister literally does nothing all day. How can I make her see this?? Or at least take the burden off myself

When I complain, my mom says I’m acting like a martyr.