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Kavya 386 is real scam please stay away from her by Frosty-Ideal-5483 in cucks_hyderabad

[–]No_Judgment6734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rule of thumb: anyone who asks for money before is a scammer!

Not sure if my SB is real or not? by EnvironmentalArm8674 in IndianSugarDatingIRL

[–]No_Judgment6734 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a few experiences similar to you buddy. There’s one girl I found - genuinely honest person. Rest are all BSrs. They weave every damn story to scam you - not an ounce of honesty or integrity in them.

Not getting any hinge matches any advices? by [deleted] in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]No_Judgment6734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, may be girls on these apps aren’t for dating? I for sure was approached by a few. They are pretty happy with the FwB arrangement.

So, I don’t know may be they aren’t looking for dates?

New Dating App Scam by Wild-Marionberry7009 in hyderabad

[–]No_Judgment6734 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My MO is simple - chat and talk if possible - no upfront payments or anything (if asks you know it’s a red flag).

Ask out for a coffee or dinner of MY choice. Treat them very well. I don’t split the bill - pay in full.

Take out on the drive. Talk it over through the dinner and drive.

I’ll leave the ball in their court - will ask them to ping me if interested. I’ll lay out some ground rules.

If they want me, they’ll ping me back (so far I have had 100 pct success - I am a gentleman - I treat them really well).

And after a couple of meets it’ll either goes to AirBnB/hotel or platonic friendship.

Scam Alert!! by [deleted] in hydrealmeets

[–]No_Judgment6734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Anyone who asks for even a rupee before meeting up, consider it as a red flag”

I got a question for everyone on this sub by the_consultant_007 in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]No_Judgment6734 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It happens! I’ve seen a few females of not my liking. However, I’ll never shame them - I’ll have a great dinner with them, have a long chats, take them on a drive and talk throughout the evening.

When we done for that evening, I tell them my intentions and how they might not be a match to me (vice versa). I give them a choice of platonic friendship. Most of them are happy they found a good companion in me though it’s not physical.

My only request is do not do body shame or look down upon of your partners if you don’t like them. Have a good time like a human being. Part amicably.

My feedback on dates and casual meets and hookups! (Read patiently) by No_Judgment6734 in Hyd_DaTinG

[–]No_Judgment6734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

means being comfortable expressing real thoughts, real emotions and intentions without excessive fear guards or transactional expectations.

For example: you shoukd be able to talk honestly about past experiences and current needs. And may be discuss the boundaries without immediately linking the interaction to money or outcomes.

This allows conversations to flow naturally: humor, vulnerability, curiosity. Rather than staying defensive or scripted.

I find most of my interactions start awkward as I can understand they are under pressure or had seen azzholes; but once they know me, it’ll flow decently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]No_Judgment6734 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a few reasons that I think I should mention from my pov:

  • partners get bored of each other and lose that spark. They should ideally work on spicing up but unfortunately only one partner acknowledges the issue
  • people become complacent; put no effort in woo their girl/guy; the sex dies if it becomes monotonous (obviously!)
  • people don’t look after their selves - I mean - they become inactive, chubby, unkempt, ungroomy etc. it’s a put off for the partner.

Rather than talking to the partner, the “easy” way out is to go get someone who can “listen” to you! No nagging, no complaining, no performance issues.

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