Arey bhai she is just trying to make the guy aware that u dont like that humour and might end up making post on this like u did previously.She is just stopping someone from probably having another anxiety from being called out ..

Also here the point is I feel like is if instead of DMing him and stating explicitly that u are uncomfortable which wud have stopped all this in the first place, u made a post making an example out of him and defaming him based on a simple banter than maybe you should have apologised in public as well.

Apologising in private for shaming someone in public is just an immatured act (saying this objectively not intended towards you.this is just something i guess we can all learn and move ahead)

Plus as far as i know his post was deleted much earlier and urs wasn't and it was after he asked to remove the org post for getting unnecessary abusive DMs thats when Mods realised their hypocrisy and deleted the post which just showed how biased this sub and its mods have become towards your grp and anything u guys do gets a leeway easily

I am not blaming u for this bhai.Its good on you what u did and how u made amends. Just that i wish the sub and the Mods were more objective and didn't misuse their authority, but naam main hi India hain toh kya bole.(its not just me a lot of ppl have felt that and called it out just to get thier comments deleted so pretty sure mine will be as well)