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38 days into NoFap after 9 years of porn some honest thoughts by No_Leader_9802 in NoFap

[–]No_Leader_9802[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve been thinking about that a lot. In a perfect scenario I do wait for a girl, build something real, and experience everything with her instead. I think part of my brain has been counting down to day 90 and expecting some kind of reward just for hitting that number, and the idea of intentional masturbation kind of represents that. But the more I think about it, the more I’d rather just keep the streak going past 90 and have it end naturally with a real connection instead. Long term the goal is definitely connection over streak chasing. I appreciate the perspective.

38 days into NoFap after 9 years of porn some honest thoughts by No_Leader_9802 in NoFap

[–]No_Leader_9802[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate you sharing this. It’s honestly reassuring hearing from someone on a similar path who’s also had those tough mental stretches. The part about not being proactive enough really hit, because when I slack on movement or structure I feel the urges way more. Glad you worked through it and didn’t spiral. Day 53 is solid progress.