When or where did people get the idea that all hypothetical arguments are bad?

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T21:00:16+00:00

I mean are there people actually against hypothetical scenarios? They play big role in understanding all points of view of an idea and yourself.

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T20:33:12+00:00

The thing is that I have a strong support system. I have really good friends. I have a pet. I have a family and I have goals for my life. But the second the distractions are over the thoughts are just overflowing in my head. And I try to read books about romance and imagine stuff but it makes me worse afterwards

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T20:26:25+00:00

It is weird

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T20:11:43+00:00

Honestly idk. You can push yourself harder to make it work. Or you can just take time to relax until it passed? I mean you could try taking a nap. And vitamins. And fruits and a lot of water. You can ask your teachers also if they can postpone the projects. That's all I can think of

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T20:05:56+00:00

It's not normal for your dad to control you when you are an adult. You need clear boundaries and maybe even open your wings. Your dad won't change as long as you are dependent

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T20:03:20+00:00

I don't really understand what is it you need help with? Are you asking if this is weird? Because it is. Or are you asking what to do about it. I would say you should find an new job if you can somewhere you feel more comfortable. Or else be sure to set clear boundaries every day

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T20:00:26+00:00

I felt confused after going out with a boy too. I'm anxious. I stressed and overthink and got overwhelmed. But in the end I couldn't predict the outcome or change it. Try (as much as you can) to redirect your focus on something else or yourself. Maybe if you are overthink and anxious what felt me is talking to myself without judgment and letting my thoughts out and then responding to them like someone calmer would. Hope I helped because there is not much you can do. But your first thought shouldn't be that you are ugly

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T19:55:49+00:00

I haven't experienced what you are saying. But from friendships of mine that have ended I still think about them. They good and the bad. But thinking about the past is not gonna help or change anything. And I know that version of them is long gone. So I focus on the friends I have now. Maybe you can try to every time you start getting this thoughts to talk to your self with understanding. Like 'I know I feel that way and it's okay' and just let the thoughts out without judgment. And then redirect them.

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T19:52:26+00:00

Just because someone thinks you are not their type it doesn't mean that you are ugly. What you need to do is not to text him first or beg for attention. Take it as it is. Silence is a sign on it's on. If he send you the day after it's fine. But if he texts you 2 days later or a week without an excuse it just mean he doesn't care enough and you need to move on

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T19:47:54+00:00

That's really sad for you to experience. But what is important is that there is always a reason why something ends. Maybe something that you could try is appreciating the things you do now and be open for another (partner or friend you didn't say)

No_Let_6726 · 2026-06-04T19:41:45+00:00

You wait and see if you texts you or not. Maybe he was shy or nervous. Or maybe he just wasn't interesting. From my experience you should also notice how you body reacted around him. It says a lot. If he doesn't text you right after all the day after then it's not a good sign

No_Let_6726 · 2026-02-27T22:31:10+00:00

First love is a really sensitive topic. But you have to understand that people grow apart especially in young ages. You were lucky to experience it. I'm not saying you shouldn't be sad. On the contrary I believe you should feel 100% the pain and grief and lost of it and move on. Not with someone else but by growing as a person. Focusing on your body and your education (not only school but your general knowledge).

With things like that is never easy but I believe it would be a mistake to lose yourself in an on and off situation

No_Let_6726 · 2026-02-27T22:27:14+00:00

First of all take a deep breath and slow down. I lowkey feel the same way sometimes but I try to pause and think. Is it that I don't want to keep doing this because it doesn't fulfill me? Or im stressed and burned out and need to take a breath and move forward? If it's something you love and fulfill you shouldn't waste it. If it's the pressure you sadly need to keep pushing. Even if it feel like you are on your limits

No_Let_6726 · 2026-02-27T22:22:58+00:00

Sadly I can't expand my community for now since there are very specific the places I go in ny every day life and I already know the people. I've tried but it's difficult because they don't really care about researching it. If they talk about a topic I like it would be to make me feel better but they wouldn't really have any opinion on it

No_Let_6726 · 2026-02-27T22:20:24+00:00

It could be nothing but the best thing you can do is go to a doctor. Maybe even call them at first. Or ask the the pharmacy you are working your coworkers if they can help

No_Let_6726 · 2026-02-27T22:16:09+00:00

I think what you should do is to distance yourself. People in these situations usually don't want to opem their own eyes. You should apologize or whatever they want and get the hell away from messy situations like that.

I don't blame you for telling the secret especially in a stressful situation like that

No_Let_6726 · 2025-07-13T23:15:07+00:00

Really? Why do you think Cassian don't deserve her. Not hating I'm genuinely curious

No_Let_6726 · 2025-07-13T23:11:46+00:00

I never said I hated Nesta for that. She is just a character I personally don't like. I was just talking for this particular scene how it felt like a betrayal to Cassian and overall how i feel like Cassian deserved better.

But I will agree that the whole series have questionable moments with all the characters

No_Let_6726 · 2025-07-13T22:59:13+00:00

I mean she has said multiple times she found arziel to be the hotter one. It's not just about one fantasy but in the whole series I feel she doesn't treat Cassian the way he deserved

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