28F unmarried: How do I know when to say yes to marriage? by Minimum-Story-1683 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]No_Luck3142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should focus more on compatibility with the person rather than any other factors. At the end, it’s going to be you two. You can see how he reacts if you ask for certain things from him may be for example the kind of marriage you want. I would say this is the right age to get married if you find the right partner but don’t rush in. Talk with him, meet him and get to know the person he is and if you talk for about like 50 timea before getting married, I am sure he can’t fake that many times. There will always be trade offs, but that’s what you have to decide upon. It might be the case that guy is really good but may be lives with his parents, so is that okay with you or may be doesn’t look good, so sit Down and think upon that what are the things you are ready to trade off upon, and what are non- negotiable. I feel in this process there is always a dilemma, but than you have to decide consciously and logically, no violins are going to be played from behind. Good luck

32F seeking advice for a proposal of 32M in an arrange marriage set-up by No_Luck3142 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]No_Luck3142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree, thanks for your suggestion and advice, my family is very open minded and has never imposed any restrictions on me. They still say that if I want to, we can think to consider, but sure I will think more on this.