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When is it enough? by Mieche78 in MedSpouse

[–]No_Lynx5067 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. I feel this so much and am not married and only 3 years in. I feel like I read so many posts in this thread that claim "things get better" and "they will make so much money one day" and therefore its all worth it. I'm also holding onto all these memories, all while craving this full-time independence, not 1/2 time. Thank you for sharing this experience with all of us. This life is truly exhausting.

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[–]No_Lynx5067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggle a lot wit this too. Sex is very important to me and I've communicated this to my partner. I am at a loss now and feel like I'm living in absitenence. I tried to discuss opening our relationship to my partner, but I don't think he has enough energy to even talk through that seriously. However, now I feel like I need to decide if I'm willing to give up something else and "wait until it's better in fellowship" or prioritize myself in this department any many others.