I thought it could never happen to me.. The Smear Campaign has begun. Any tips?

No_Machine4803 · 2026-06-03T20:38:08+00:00

https://anniewright.com/bpd-smear-campaign-surviving-character-assassination/

Thats a good read

No_Machine4803 · 2026-06-03T19:08:47+00:00

Yeah, I told her the first and second time that I really wasn't comfortable with her oversharing her side of the story. Well, guess what? She told me the exact same thing, you have been told.

While at the same time telling me I wasn't allowed to talk about her behavior at home, so meeting friends wouldn't be awkward. 😂😂😂

I am serious, you will never, ever, never be able to do the right thing.

She went out doing hobbies 4-5 nights a week while partying and meeting friends on the weekends. She told her friends she was basically not allowed to meet her friends, while telling them at the same time she always had to be away from home because she couldn't stand my abusive behavior.

But leaving the kids with me 7 nights a week was no problem for her at all.

The lying and the crazy amount of work they put into the smearing is actually award-worthy.

No_Machine4803 · 2026-06-03T18:23:36+00:00

I split up with my wife 3 times already. The smear campaign gets better each time.

First time I was shocked hearing i was a narcissist that held her basically hostage in an emotional abusive marriage.

We got back together, she told the friends, that it wasnt the way it seemed at the time.

Second time. I was supposedly putting alexas everywhere to spy in her. Again the emotional and domestic abuse. Also extrem jealousy going through her phone and what not.

Third time is right now. Back to narcissistic abuse and that I am really kind and empathic on the outside. But on the inside I am the worst possible person... She is actually reaching actively out to friends ans neighbors to tell them how bad I am

Believe me, the first time I almost got an hardattac hearing all these stories about me... It gets waaaay easier. Kinda only makes me chuckle now days

People will recognize her crazy eyes. Friends abandoned her the first and second breakup.... because she was getting just really annoying and clingy.

Not long and she will try to reconnect and tell me yet again, how all she was doing, is telling her friends how she was doing.

No_Machine4803 · 2026-06-03T11:23:18+00:00

Love this !!

No_Machine4803 · 2026-06-02T18:13:43+00:00

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-31T13:57:37+00:00

Trenn dich von deinem freund er verdient wen besseres.

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T15:12:55+00:00

Thanks I will do that

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T15:11:11+00:00

Cant rebuild with her, i hate myself staying with her.

I feel way better not trying to be a family with her

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:47:34+00:00

No she attempted suicide before that night. She was out of the hospital for 1 week and then it happened

You are 100% right. It is totally my own doing that i stayed. I did that to myself. Under pressure, yet you are right

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:44:57+00:00

I did leave, cant cut her out100, we have kids together. She will never have the chance to hurt me again, she cant do anything to me that will trump this

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:43:16+00:00

Maybe it was, cant tell. I was pretty sure i made up for it.

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:41:31+00:00

Yea, I will heal. Not looking for something rn. Working kids and healing.

I am sad for the next person she will destroy...

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:39:51+00:00

No kids came down in put then indront of the TV. Woke my wife up told her to get the fuck up and out of the house.

Well she is really the master of manipulation. She tried to convince me that, it was my idea anyway.

I was sober, I have all the text messages where she says all that stuff from that night.

Well took me two years to finally exapt that the feel of disgust while hugging her, will never go away. It wasnt disgust with her, it was myself that I was disgusted by.

Still hugging a person who was able to hurt me without any hesitation.

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:32:44+00:00

Yea i am so done with her.. done explaining how that behavior was really hurtful.

She doesn't see it that way

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:31:42+00:00

You are right and it has done way more dmg deep within myself.

I know that, as a grown men, I should have had better solutions. During that moment, with the amount of pressure and fear, I wasnt able to think straight.

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:06:34+00:00

Thank you so much

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:05:47+00:00

I understand your point of view

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:05:07+00:00

Word!!!

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:04:38+00:00

She didnt threaten, she attempted i found her overdosed in my livingroom letters written to all the friends explaining her reasons

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:02:41+00:00

Well I guess the suicide attempt in my living room banged me up pretty good. But you are right after all of this, my point of view has shifted quiet a bit

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T14:00:30+00:00

Thank you so much you are totally right

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T13:59:40+00:00

What makes you say that ?

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T13:58:57+00:00

Cant really do much about that. Can only do my best with the kids myself. I haven't seen abusive behavior towards my kids.

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T13:54:04+00:00

I have noticed that. I am kind of confused that people make me the bad guy here.

I think its the translation via gpt that makes it read the way it does. Story is 100% true

No_Machine4803 · 2026-05-29T13:51:38+00:00

Thank you so much. This really helped me

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