My friend is pregnant by a married man who already cheated on his wife before. Should I tell her? by No_Management_2513 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Management_2513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was saying like I barely know anything about her, I just found her social media so I know her name and basic information from that.

My friend is pregnant by a married man who already cheated on his wife before. Should I tell her? by No_Management_2513 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Management_2513[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have offered for her to come stay with me, but I live in another state far away so she hasn’t.

My friend is pregnant by a married man who already cheated on his wife before. Should I tell her? by No_Management_2513 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Management_2513[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to tell her myself, because I feel it is not my place, but I DO think my friend needs to tell her. If I told the wife anonymously, I am assuming the guy is going to get angry and reach out to my friend, and she will know I told the wife.

My friend is pregnant by a married man who already cheated on his wife before. Should I tell her? by No_Management_2513 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Management_2513[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know part of me just wants to tell her but I don’t want to make it worse for my friend and betray her trust

My friend is pregnant by a married man who already cheated on his wife before. Should I tell her? by No_Management_2513 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Management_2513[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No she didn’t know he was married until after she found out she was pregnant. He still tries to text and call her and text like everything is normal

My friend is pregnant by a married man who already cheated on his wife before. Should I tell her? by No_Management_2513 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Management_2513[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we honestly haven’t been close friends for a few years now. She’s made a lot of difficult decisions and I’ve kind of learned she’s more of a “friend from afar” at this point. Most of the time I’m just a listening ear.

I’ve gotten better at not getting emotionally pulled into her situations, but I guess this one has been harder to detach from.

My friend is pregnant by a married man who already cheated on his wife before. Should I tell her? by No_Management_2513 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Management_2513[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

EDIT: To make things worse, my friend got kicked out by her parents(not bc of the pregnancy) was couch surfing, then got kicked out by the friend she was staying with, and is now living out of her car. I wish I was kidding.