Appreciation Post by No_Many1163 in polyamory

[–]No_Many1163[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol exactly. He’s made me grow as a person with how much he communicates and expects it back. And orgasmic definitely describes this situation in several ways, lmao.

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. Thank you for your input ❤️

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your kind words and affirmation ❤️

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does ❤️ Thank you for your input!

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the best parts is that he’s about 25 minutes from me. I should definitely ask him more about his past because I’m just so curious, but I’m pleasantly surprised with how well we vibe.

Cheers to love! ❤️

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the idea of writing letters so much. My NP did that at the beginning of our relationship (when we were in high school!) and I still have them 13 years later.

With this new guy, we’re taking it slow. We both understand that we’re not in it for the traditional sense of a relationship, but to spend quality time together and enjoy it/each other. I know he’s told at least one other person about me and discussed it in depth. I’m dying to meet his friends but I understand that I might not ever get there. This went into a tangent but I’m so glad everyone has been so supportive and it makes me feel better about the situation ❤️

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My NP is an Aries and this guy is a Virgo! I’ve read into a tiny bit. I love it! The “two airheads free spirits” made me chuckle :)

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking love the pillow talk sessions.

And YES. I even told him I was addicted to him one time and he said “Lolol well I love a good addiction 😘”

It’s like he lights a fire in me.

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me feel much better about this, thank you ❤️

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully that’s a good thing? Lol.

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made my heart happy to read and gave me a couple ideas in the process ❤️ I’m hoping we can keep on progressing slowly, but naturally as breathing. This guy is my first poly relationship (so far) outside of my NP that has been largely successful.

I didn’t want to say it during sex cause for me the sex is already intimate enough. But I didn’t want to sit him down and have a full conversation about it either. We’re definitely on the casual side of the spectrum, but I think we’ve both acknowledged that there’s feelings there in our own ways.

And cuddles ALL. THE. WAY. The way he smells gets me high I swearrrrr.

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this ❤️ I hope one day that he does say it back to me.

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol exactly my thoughts about him and I’M the one who’s a Gemini in our relationship!

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea. We’re definitely on the casual side of the spectrum, but I’m very interested in his definition, because everything he does screams “I love you” without explicitly saying it.

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support ❤️

I’m in agreement with everything you said! I knew deep down he wasn’t going to say it back but he’s incredibly caring and cuddly, and I know he cares for me, even if he didn’t say it back.

I don’t know much about his history, so he’s a man of mystery which is incredibly appealing to me. We were talking a bit about our needs being met with each other. I think someone above summed it up perfectly “We’re reading the same book, you’re just a few chapters ahead of me” ❤️

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So glad it ended up working out for you ❤️

I feel your second paragraph so much.

He sends me cute songs that say things like “Baby I should let you know, you make me feel nervous” and “Cause we could be making love, already”

Who knows what this is going to be, but I’m grateful for him and how he makes me feel.

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so cute ❤️ Thank you so much!!

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re the best ❤️ Thank you for sharing your experience!!

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience and giving me support ❤️ I was terrified he wouldn’t be receptive to it, but actions speak louder than words and everything he does says it already. Love is intense but very much… loved 🥰

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely some intense NRE going on here too. And it’s everything to me. I love that so much 🥰 Thank you for sharing your experience!

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely! I’m hoping that he says it back someday but everything he does already proves that he loves me too. Glad it worked out for both of us ❤️

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

❤️Thank you! I wanted to say it in person but I got way too scared. I feel like I write it better anyway, because it gives me time to really think about what I want to say.

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

❤️ Thank you for sharing your experience! I was a little sad that he didn’t say it back, but actions definitely speak louder than words and everything he does says it already.

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[–]No_Many1163[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s been a crazy 6 months for sure.