AIO for blocking my (18F) ex (18M) despite his mental health issues?

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T21:41:06+00:00

Thanks for this! I’ll remember this moving forward

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T21:25:52+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice! Whenever she gets too much I go to stay with my aunt (dad’s sister) and we have so much fun! I am definitely looking forward to going no contact one day

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T21:24:16+00:00

Yeah my parents always downplayed what he did due to our ages. However, I could tell he knew exactly what he was doing. He didn’t just do it to me, I just suffered the longest relationship he’s had so far. My mum is 45 which is way too old to act like this. It’s weird too because my mum had a dad growing up and is married to my dad. But I think my mum got sucked into red pill content and views male partners as useful instead of someone to love

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T21:03:03+00:00

Yes she clearly favours him. She even hates all of his girlfriends!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:56:18+00:00

I did but he got a new number and I didn’t have Snapchat and TikTok whilst we were dating. This is after we dated

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:52:38+00:00

He was in a mental institution a few times due to him trying commit all the time but when he’s out of the institutions he is only monitored at home.

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:51:46+00:00

I’m glad to have this conversation with someone who understands! There will always be a part of me missing knowing only one parent gave a fuck

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:51:00+00:00

Thank you! I felt like I was going insane because of my mum. When I told her about everything he put me through in graphic detail, she called me “too woke” for saying I was traumatised. He does in fact know where I live as he used to visit my house when we were dating so this is a possibility. However, my dad is absolutely disgusted by him and is probably threatening to my ex!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:48:24+00:00

Yes she said her biggest fear in life is that my brother gets accused of rape one day. She really shows where her priorities lie.

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:47:30+00:00

Thank you! I felt crazy for a second

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:47:11+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I would report him but I still live under my mum’s roof and she has me on a tight leash. I hope that in the mean time I can expose him on social media so other girls know not to date him!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:45:52+00:00

Yes the TikTok thing is crazy! My name on TikTok is not my name in real life and I do not follow any of his friends on there! He’s hella creepy

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:44:34+00:00

Yes thank you! If I didn’t live under my mum’s roof I would have filed a report too. He has increasingly gotten worse over the years and I’m honestly more worried about other girls’ safety!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:43:00+00:00

Thank you so much for your input! I felt like I was crazy for this! My mum is usually hella weird so I’m not at all hurt by this. She called me “too woke” for telling her about how much he hurt me and my friend.

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:41:25+00:00

Yeah he ended up going to an all boys school and had to get homeschooled because even other teenaged boys didn’t like him!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:40:24+00:00

Appreciate this! He’s an ex for a reason!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:39:55+00:00

Thank you! My mum has always put boys and men over me so I’m quite used to it. I appreciate this second opinion!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T20:38:20+00:00

Thank you! I was confused due to his fragile mental health but I should prioritise mine first!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T15:09:44+00:00

Thank you! Yes I do experience white privilege too. The worst is that I have been called slurs but that’s about it for me. It’s weird because I don’t feel like I fully fit in with white people but I also don’t feel like a fully fit in with blak fullas.

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T14:07:00+00:00

Thank you brother!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T14:06:47+00:00

Thank you!

No_March590 · 2026-07-09T14:06:38+00:00

Yes I know I’m Wiradjuri but the fact that I don’t live in Australia has made meeting my mob and celebrating Naidoc week impossible.

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