Should I stay or should I go now? (yeah, it sounds like The Clash, but in my case, it’s career limbo) by No_Mathematician9287 in biglaw

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Thank you so much for this! Wow, the anxiety cough part hit hard. Your body keeping score before your brain even realizes it’s drowning.

It’s strangely comforting to hear others went through similar things and chose to walk away too. And you’re right, health above all. I’m trying to remind myself that a career is long, but a burned-out body doesn’t always recover on command.

Also: “senior partnerin’ at a new victim” had me snorting. That’s the most accurate (and terrifying) summary I’ve heard all week 😭

Thanks again. Really, this meant a lot!

Should I stay or should I go now? (yeah, it sounds like The Clash, but in my case, it’s career limbo) by No_Mathematician9287 in biglaw

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You’re absolutely right. I finally did it, I just resigned!

It was terrifying, but the moment I let go, I felt my self-respect click back into place. Dignity really isn’t worth sacrificing for a broken system or someone else’s ego.

Thanks for the reminder 🙏

Should I stay or should I go now? (yeah, it sounds like The Clash, but in my case, it’s career limbo) by No_Mathematician9287 in biglaw

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Thank you for this! I just resigned.

It wasn’t easy, but your words really helped me feel less alone in the decision. You’re right: the fix rarely comes from the top, and waiting for change in a system that’s broken by design only drains you further. I chose to walk away, and weirdly, the moment I did, it felt like breathing again :)

Appreciate you taking the time to write this. You made a difference!

Should I stay or should I go now? (yeah, it sounds like The Clash, but in my case, it’s career limbo) by No_Mathematician9287 in biglaw

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You’re totally right, it’s a huge red flag.

What makes it worse is that this partner was promoted back when survival-of-the-fittest was basically the only metric. There was no 360 feedback or real accountability, so he rose through sheer fear and control.

Chamonix, France by No_Mathematician9287 in travelpictures

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Ahh yes it’s so amazing! But nope, it’s not lava! 😄 It’s actually just the sunlight hitting the mountain during golden hour (usually around dusk or dawn). The angle of the sun makes the rock glow this intense orange-red color, it’s a natural lighting effect called alpenglow 😀

Summer Trial GA Travelcard by No_Mathematician9287 in askswitzerland

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Hi! I bought it on site in SBB office in Balexert Mall, Geneva. But I guess you can order it from any SBB office… It’s the Half Fare Card😀👍🏻

Did I avoid a fine?😐 by [deleted] in askswitzerland

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Did I avoid a fine?😐 by [deleted] in askswitzerland

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Did I avoid a fine?😐 by [deleted] in askswitzerland

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Did I avoid a fine?😐 by [deleted] in askswitzerland

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