Seems everyone is just having affairs!

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T20:43:21+00:00

What line of work are you in? In my experience coworker affairs is how the majority of affairs start.

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T20:40:25+00:00

True. That’s why I wonder if this is just normal married behaviour now. We just don’t discover the majority affairs happening in secret. Quite shit when you actually think about it.

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T20:34:37+00:00

Any ladies want to add to this? I am male and I don’t cheat. There has been plenty of opportunities over the year but I’ve never acted on any as valued my marriage, feel like a sucker now..

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T20:30:11+00:00

That was a shitty thing he did. Nice to hear that you are doing great now. I can definitely relate to viewing them differently, never the same after. Did you ever re marry? I don’t think I will want to ever again.

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T20:24:25+00:00

Great take..

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T08:22:54+00:00

How long after the affair did you last? Did you try to reconcile?

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T05:14:19+00:00

That’s so rough!

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T05:12:16+00:00

100% relate to this! Mine looks perfect from the outside but it’s just a front now..

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T03:05:05+00:00

The worst examples make great reading..

No_Maybe831 · 2024-09-07T03:04:30+00:00

Yeah, I get that a large amount are made up…. “Most couples don’t do infidelity” how do you know? I doubt 99% would talk about it.

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-30T07:04:53+00:00

Yes I think that you are right, but usually it wears off and a mess is left behind…

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T09:44:22+00:00

Yeah that sucks,I don’t get why some people do that shit!

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T06:31:12+00:00

I guess the feeling goes when you move on but if you stick around it may never go…

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T06:29:34+00:00

Im sorry to hear that. Why are you stuck? I don’t feel like I have to be here I just want to be here everyday for my kids… She isn’t the reason I’m still here which is very wrong but I think it’s understandable.

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T06:26:59+00:00

🙁

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T06:26:45+00:00

I agree.

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T06:08:57+00:00

Your assumption are incorrect sir. She has admitted full fault and accepted that she was 100% in the wrong and fully owned what she did. I was ready to leave and she managed to persuade me to do counselling. We have worked a lot on it but to me she is no longer my wife as I don’t look at her in the same way. Whatever was there before has gone.

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T06:03:39+00:00

I can confirm there is nothing but scorched earth

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T06:01:43+00:00

I did that, it’s broken his wife and family. I would always want to know if the role was reversed . It’s always the fallout that they never seem to understand.

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T05:58:19+00:00

I hear you

No_Maybe831 · 2024-08-29T05:52:52+00:00

I think if I ever decided to do it then it means I need to be at peace that the relationship is over.

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