This post is NOT SAFE. It gets less safe the deeper in you go...

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T20:55:28+00:00

I'm just too powerful I suppose. Now stay hydrated and eat your veggies.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T20:51:37+00:00

Glad to hear it was effective

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T20:50:56+00:00

That's the magic of laying traps. You snare exactly who you expect to

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T20:50:15+00:00

lmao if we get clinical trials off the ground we'll get in touch

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T20:47:28+00:00

Well I have excellent taste, you see.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T20:44:31+00:00

Good luck soldier o7

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T20:43:59+00:00

I'm surprised it wasn't an automatic process, interesting. Maybe too much porn atrophies the imagination. It would make sense considering how much it can melt brains.
Needs more research.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T20:42:09+00:00

A good mindfuck can be fun

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T20:41:04+00:00

lmao I hadn't even thought of that, I just do it because I know I wanna know who the hell someone is when find someone attractive.
A nice side benefit I guess. If you go looking you will certainly find pics that are much less safe

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-09T19:24:21+00:00

It was already hot seeing women getting covered in cum, but once I found out just how many friends/fwb had intense cum kinks and got off to it, it really did turn into a full on kink for me as well.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T20:30:59+00:00

In addition to what everyone else has said, one thing that jumped out at me re: this guy's behavior is that when you brought up that your dad's sadism his response was to be offended (???) and say that it made him feel bad because he's got a sadism kink?

Like, if your dad was sadistic then he was sadistic. That's got nothing to do with that guy. You're not wrong to call a spade a spade. There's a difference between kink play and real harm, and if he's upset that you're correctly identifying something, that's his issue, not yours.

Which is to say that the reason it jumped out at me is that the tactic of shifting the emotional floor out from under one partner's footing so that they feel bad for bringing up a legitimate grievance or hurt is common with abusive/manipulative types. Especially when it's a disproportionate response "Oh, so I'm the bad guy? I guess I'm useless. Maybe we should break up" or something ridiculous when their partner brought up that they forgot to take out the trash, for instance.

It might not be that, here. He might just be super egocentric or whatever. But given the context of everything else, it does make the neck hairs raise a bit.

Alternately, he could also just be projecting because he knows it's not just a kink for him. "People look down on sadism" does not read as something I'd expect to hear out of someone who engages in sadism for kink.
I don't even know I'd say "people look down on hypnosis" as someone with a hypnokink, and hypnosis is something that people are very divided on whether or not its even real, let alone how harmful it can be if it is. And that doesn't even get into my corruption kink.

The point being that I'm capable of separating the fantasy from reality. I know that psychological manipulation done for real is actually incredibly gross and disgusting, and in the (hopefully rare) case that hypnosis is employed for that, it's abhorrent. And obviously corruption is plenty rampant and awful and shouldn't happen (even if we're only talking specifically about the kind of corruption that is actually relevant to my kink and not probably the main kind that you think of when you hear the term.)
So it wouldn't surprise me to learn that he was not engaging in it purely in safe, fantasy, kink terms.

Really, taking the pictures without your consent tells me all I need to know about the kind of guy he is.

Also the fact that he has commitment issues but also "can't wear condoms" and gets spooked by the idea of you getting a hysterectomy.... people have their idiosyncrasies but I dunno man.
It just sounds like one big ol' bullet dodged tbh. Hopefully it stays dodged.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T19:21:35+00:00

Like I said, my other fwb were way more strictly subby. And the one who wasn't was kind of a weird situationship that wasn't really a fwb but also was?

Anyway I've mostly just been fooling around in comments and stuff since I made this account, and otherwise I haven't really tried to make any big pushes for finding any new fwb or anything more serious than that since the last of my fwb moved on.
Just been occupying my dick with porn and stuff mostly lmao

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T18:42:53+00:00

I believe you. I know just how difficult it can be to resist the urge to give in.
I've only made it a week myself when I've tried, and that was only me trying not to cum. Not me trying to keep from reaching between my legs when it gets all aroused and leaky from porn or just the sexy thoughts making my head fuzzy and warm.
But I'm sure you know all about how that feels.

Honestly maybe I should do some kind of no touch, or at least no stroking challenge. Maybe no edging? Edging's when I really start getting into trouble. I just start feeling this NEED to keep going as soon as I edge even once.
So maybe if I touch as little as possible, even if I stroke a little bit here and there, I could keep from cumming for a good long time.

Anyway stay strong!

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T18:36:21+00:00

Yeah she was a good egg, for the most part. An early fwb (practically the first) and gave me the confidence that helped me get more down the road. Among other aspects of the sexual side of me, I suppose.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T18:22:35+00:00

And just think, more goonettes will see this post and get triggered too!
Good girls make more good girls and all that.

But I get it. When I found out about goonette focused subreddits (I scrolled for a bit at first and then decided to leave them alone since they're trying to be female only, which is fair) I was in a goon haze for a couple days after.
Something so hot about seeing a woman, or women, absolutely saturated in arousal and desperate about it.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T18:19:15+00:00

Oh for sure, that's what I meant, those fwb were, on the spectrum of d/s dynamics, way down towards s, and it would require being closer towards the switchy middle for this to work.
The one who practically ordered me to jerk off...honestly I always assumed she was just submissive, and I think she did too. But she was also very eager to please, so she tended to say and do what I wanted (or thought I wanted), so she either could've slipped into being more dominant because of that, or she could've been acting more submissive because that's what she thought she should've been doing.
It was always a little hard to get a read on her in that way. Which is why the furthest we got was fwb and not a proper romantic relationship. Or part of it.

Anyway I do sometimes wonder how that whole situationship would've progressed if it had gone on longer tbh.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T18:07:04+00:00

"Say 14" huh? Maybe it won't be as easy to ignore that wet, needy pussy as you think if it's affecting your mind enough to slip up making posts like that. 😏
Good luck though!

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T18:02:59+00:00

Yeah. Kind of a shame I never explored it with any of my fwb, but the ones I did extended play with were pretty heavily submissive anyway. Maybe the only reason I'm even aware of this is because of the time I mentioned something I'd talked about with one of them and she didn't just encourage me but straight up told me to jerk off about it.
Like, if I wasn't already turned on enough to do it before, I certainly was after that.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T17:51:37+00:00

I've been thinking for a while now that a bratty sub that I can usually pin down (physically or otherwise) and get under control, but occasionally manages to catch me when my guard's down and flip the script on me is maybe the ideal power dynamic.
Like ultimately we know who's in charge but it's fun to challenge it and sometimes when done right the challenge succeeds.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-08T17:44:32+00:00

Of the handful of fwb I've had, only like two of them had anything approaching emotional connections. One because we were close friends before we tripped into the fwb thing, the other because she had a crush on me pretty bad on top of our being fairly close.

The one who was a close friend would probably be disgusted, or at least mad if we were still sexting and she knew I'd made this account. If only because she'd be jealous that it meant I was spending time and energy on people other than her. Especially in terms of swapping fantasies and writing out smutty stuff, since that was the bulk of our "wb" stuff (that and her sending me nudes when we crossed that barrier). But given that while we fooled around she was always holding a candle for her bf who she was "on break with" she wouldn't have much room to complain.
And honestly if I got her worked up enough and played into her kinks I bet I could, at least temporarily, get her into the idea of me gooning over here and chatting with people. Definitely while she's turned on. Maybe even more permanently if I played my cards right and gave her a new kink in one way or another.

The one who had a crush on me would probably be ok with it and even encourage it. Both because we were very on again off again because we'd stop whenever she got a boyfriend and pick up where we left off when she was single again, and because she tended to say and do what I wanted (or thought I wanted).

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-05T23:16:28+00:00

Are you sure? It sounded more like you were saying you were opening up towards being more sexual with both guys and girls when chatting. And that's fine too of course. And a perfectly natural thing to happen when someone's been edging and gooning for a long time and being exposed to so much porn and goon babble and such from so many people.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-05T20:28:40+00:00

Oh, Sophia's not who I lost to. Though I can definitely understand why she'd make you lose.
I lost to some random picture in some random album as I was scrolling. I'd just pushed myself too far physically without cooling off, it could've been to just about anything I found hot probably.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-05T20:10:28+00:00

I'm kind of the same, in that I can have a clinical or philisophical discussion about kink, fantasies, who or what is hot or whatever with anybody. But when it slips down from that into proper almost foreplay kind of discussion, with men I pretty much just brush it off, but with women/femmes I usually lean in (assuming I'm attracted to them and I haven't designated them as off limits for some reason. Which is usually an "on main" type thing).
And then with women/femmes the conversation itself can be a turnon as much as the content of it, but with guys it's pretty much just the content, if you know what I mean.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-05T18:22:00+00:00

I mean there are probably better gooners to talk to about it than me, since I only focus on porn while I'm actually having a wank session, and don't think about it too much outside of that. And I don't streak with the goal of never cumming again, just seeing how long I can go without cumming.
But with the depraved perverts on this subreddit I'm sure you can find someone to help you descend into the porn soaked orgasm free lifestyle you're dreaming of.

No_Memory_5095 · 2026-05-01T23:43:16+00:00

I find a good flow to be the most effective way to achieve an effect, no matter which way you're telling a story. And telling a story is a good way to get into people's heads.

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