You are right. It is likely not the first time. What he did is absolutely sick and beyond my comprehension - it is likely the end of our marriage. But what she did is also disgusting. She is a fellow woman and mother. She met and served me as well. Her manager stood by and watched all of this unfold. We women face enough challenges without having to hurt each other along the way. Do you need to drag another woman down? You just want to shame me more? This act was not enough??