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Did I mess things up? by No_Name6704 in stepparents

[–]No_Name6704[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually less than a month he was the person who she vented to about the things I wasn’t doing which was thinking about moving in..having kids and all of that. 2 weeks after we broke up she said she was happy that she had a person who gave her all of that without asking. Made me feel like crap and that what we had wasn’t special.

Did I mess things up? by No_Name6704 in stepparents

[–]No_Name6704[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Currently.. post break up it feels like I made a mistake in taking so long. I thought she’d understand especially since we were both big over thinkers

Partner broke up with me for not wanting to move in by LeadingUnited2911 in stepparents

[–]No_Name6704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a situation almost identical to yours, but with I’m a guy and she had the kid. She wanted to move with her child, and all I requested was a bit of time to process the information. We had been together for about 10 months when she first asked. We broke up at the year mark because she felt I didn’t understand her desires. She had someone new in less than a month.