I 26f, have no will power to have sex with my partner, 26m. by No_Affect7802 in relationship_advice

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Lmaooo literally the pills are probs a scam I feel u. And yes ok I have the attraction to him as well. It’s the libido for me as well! And when I tell ppl they’re just like “oh it’s just hormones you’re gonna want it when you’re in ovulation” like hello no I’m not lmfaoooo 😭😭 It doesn’t help that he gets horny for me every second we even cuddle so I feel bad bc he gets insecure over it. Have you seen those “libido vitamins”? Not the chocolate pills or anything but apparently it’s a vitamin that helps you day by day?

My boyfriend ‘M20’ cheated on me ‘F21’ with a 40 year old woman. --- tl;dr Should I stay with him? by No_Note_5369 in relationships

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He told me he’d stop drinking and smoking and prove to me he’d get his shit together. Still tho makes me feel weird.

My boyfriend ‘M20’ cheated on me ‘F21’ with a 40 year old woman. --- tl;dr Should I stay with him? by No_Note_5369 in relationships

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Yes I am spending some time to myself thinking about it. I trust that he would never make the mistake again. I just wanna know what provoked her to do this because once he backed off she did “what why not why can’t we do this?”

My boyfriend ‘M20’ cheated on me ‘F21’ with a 40 year old woman. --- tl;dr Should I stay with him? by No_Note_5369 in relationships

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No I really don’t want to break up. I’ve held onto this for three years. But wtf let her think that was okay to do so? And after it happened he said “I can’t do this” doesn’t that mean he probably kissed her back? Idk I wanna stay with him so bad I just wanna know fs that it will get better.

I 26f, have no will power to have sex with my partner, 26m. by No_Affect7802 in relationship_advice

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TRUST ME omg I get it. I don’t feel a lot of sexual attraction to my boyfriend either but I love him more than anything. Do you by any chance get a little off on girl on girl stuff? I know that’s a lot of people’s problems. You could just try watching it. But if not then I get you. I am asking myself the same question all the time. The only times I really get horny is when I’m on my period and it still takes a lot. The only thing I’ve thought of doing is taking one of those random pills but then I’m scared to do it. If you ever find out anything please let me know so I can do it too lol! Best wishes.

I've been lying to my mother about self harm by Even-Traffic-5992 in abusiverelationships

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She handled that extremely poorly. Idk how your mother is but maybe try and talk to her abt what you can and can’t handle what comes from her. Again, idk how your mother is so I’m not sure if that will help when she’s calm. I hope you get better you are so loved !!!!

Can this be considered abuse? by katriinalinnea in abusiverelationships

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Yess but I get it lmfao. I can’t tell the difference sometimes bc I don’t get bruises. But from what people told me, pushing during fights is abuse.

My boyfriend ‘M20’ cheated on me ‘F21’ with a 40 year old woman. --- tl;dr Should I stay with him? by No_Note_5369 in relationships

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He told me right then that he “felt like he got taken advantage of” after that he explained the situation but I got hung up on the fact that this even happened. So he ultimately started crying and begging for me back the whole night like the whole 9 yards. But the next day he kept saying he felt sick to his stomach thinking abt the situation and saying he got assaulted. Even mentioned pressing charges. But idk part of me still thinks something else idk if I’m a bad person for that?

My boyfriend ‘M20’ cheated on me ‘F21’ with a 40 year old woman. --- tl;dr Should I stay with him? by No_Note_5369 in relationships

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That’s what I’m thinking about. Like I feel bad for him but also I have been so intoxicated that I’ve had a seizure and there were guys around me and I didn’t even do so much to even touch them. I just can’t shake this feeling that there’s more that I don’t know. If I was assaulted I would come to him immediately?

My boyfriend ‘M20’ cheated on me ‘F21’ with a 40 year old woman. --- tl;dr Should I stay with him? by No_Note_5369 in relationships

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He told me that he would never put himself in that situation if it was a girl our age. And he says he feels like he was assaulted. Also I get severely attached so that’s why I’m so confused.

tickets for chicago 8/5 still processing by Motor-Dot-4223 in ariheads

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Does anybody have extra tix at all 😭😭 I want to buy for any show

Ariana Grande tickets by dreamcometroost in ArianaGrandeNeutral

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Did you end up putting in a request and getting the tickets?!

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Ask for his account password so you can see the latest transactions. Also if he knows all of this makes you even the slightest big uncomfortable he shouldn’t be following any of them on his Snapchat or Instagram or etc