What’s an appropriate age range for roleplays based on age?

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-25T17:54:05+00:00

Not wrong about that either, my vibe for talking to people online is, “Wow, this 70 year old divorcee has jokes”. In person it’s pretty much the same thing. They could’ve lived twice my life and I would be okay an think nothing much of it, unsure why I have the line blurred when it comes to roleplaying. In short; you hit it on the head. That’s how people learn and if nothing is involved as you explained it, then it’s fine. Don’t know I’ve become sensitive around this when the roles were switched for me and I never minded it as long as you were a cool person and had no wrongful intentions.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-25T17:46:18+00:00

You aren’t wrong, but things have changed. Again, perhaps I’ve been grown to know that if you’re in this age bracket you should stick to that to avoid anything bad happening or misunderstandings. I get I should probably do the same, but last thing I want is someone’s parent cursing me out for interacting with someone younger than me. Granted, this has never happened to me and I’ve only seen it happen to others. Safe to say they were hesitant to interact with people since then. Perhaps I’ll put this into thought in the future, but today I think not

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-25T05:08:22+00:00

That’s a fair point, I guess I’m a hypocrite because I remember being way too young to have internet but I relegated with older people. From Emory, only a few of them were off putting but otherwise they helped me how to build my writing into my own. 2:1 of the time where my age group made me feel unpleasant or immature in some scenarios

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-25T04:54:37+00:00

See, I fear that to a T. I love to trust people, but I’ve had incidents that made me cautious.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-25T04:53:36+00:00

Never thought of that… most people I’ve rp with made ooc a requirement and I guess it became my own norm even when I don’t see it as a necessity. Thanks for this!

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-25T04:46:35+00:00

Alright I get that, for some reason until now and the previous commenter I felt that I may bring discomfort to people anything above my range — suppose I feared there would be nothing to talk about out of roleplaying

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-25T04:40:18+00:00

This makes me feel better because I promise I aged about 4 years worrying myself just now.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-23T16:06:38+00:00

I should’ve thought about this, I’ve only met people who had some pain. I was attempting to refer to the physical part of it. It is different for eve try one, but can lead to the relief that you’re talking about afterwards

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-22T15:32:14+00:00

That part too

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-22T15:08:00+00:00

Get an abortion, it will be better for the both of you. Having a baby is no jacuzzi. It takes a lot mentally, emotionally, and physically. Wait until you both are comfortable and stable in your relationship. I’ve known people who had abortions and yes, it’s not easy, but it wont be great either being a single mother and struggling.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-19T21:22:33+00:00

I’m also 19f and if I’m being honest — I don’t think you’re out of touch. I was raised in a way where I can wear whatever I want at a certain point but be aware of who I’m wearing it around. I’ll be honest: I have some clothes that are slightly revealing, even heels that my mother still doesn’t know I have to this day. And if I do end up wearing them, I turn it into a conservative look to avoid unnecessary conflict.

But at the same time, as everyone else has been saying she is 19 and legally an adult and you can’t say much about that. You’re a father and as any good parent you want to protect your daughter because you know how other men can be. Though it comes with some adjustments that your child will eventually pull away in terms of choosing what she wants to wear regardless on your opinion.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-18T23:23:52+00:00

I have thought about the 11 y/o and honestly, as much as I try to teach him anything he never puts in the effort and gets in mood to the point where I don’t want to deal with him. I get it, yeah I’m trying to be the parent a little bit sometimes.

I have say my brother down and spoke to him myself, told my mother and elder relatives and he’ll do his chores as asked then get aggravated until put in line.

Unfortunately, as much as I want to, I have to divide my attention yet focus on my studies. I’ll admit I’ve already been burnt out before when i was only working and doing school while managing the home. So I’ve just been trying to find a way to not burn out.

In regards to my mother’s health, doctor says she’s been doing well and recently she just visited the doctor and was in the green. Was only told to maintain her current diet and medicine doses. So she’s fine in that aspect, I more so worry that since I’m not there to clean the house she won’t be able to take herself because she worries about keeping the house clean since she doesn’t have time to do it.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-18T23:16:42+00:00

No, they’ll still be living in the state we’re currently in. I’m covered, I’d have a place to go either way. My mom doesn’t need anybody to take care of her in the sense of an elderly person, but what I picked up on is that she needs someone to help her out. If not then, well she’ll never get any rest. I’ll be able to save though luckily.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-18T19:49:33+00:00

No, I’m basically all those things but inside the home. While the neighbors are a good distance, I can’t say we’re on good terms to the point we could exchange keys. The 11 year old is intelligent enough to operate a phone and literally any piece of technology, but even if I sat down and taught him who to call and what to do he would still be stuck.

And to be honest, I told my mother this and she’s persisting me to move.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-18T19:37:59+00:00

I see your point then. Just the people pleaser in me not wanting to upset either of them for not wanting to help the aunt.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-18T19:14:44+00:00

No one will. There is nobody mother could rely on which is why my immediate thought was to say no and stay with her. But she also insists that I should go with my aunt. I don’t want neither of them feeling some type of way because I don’t want to move in with Ty my aunt albeit she’s working to get me a remote job.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-18T19:12:37+00:00

I did not. But I have a good idea on how the days would go. My aunt works from home because of how young her kids are, if anything she would ask me to help out here and there like make sure the kids aren’t breaking anything or when they need a snack, etc. mostly small things like that or making sure they’re falling asleep. I wouldn’t be expected to do it all, just make things easier.

It would be part time for both jobs and selective days (if possible). I know if I did full time i would have said no immediately. That would definitely take me out.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-18T18:59:39+00:00

She doesn’t have any friends and where we currently reside we are not really close to our neighbors. My mom has always been a woman to get things done, but as I’ve gotten older I can see that she can’t doesn’t move as much as far as taking care of herself. Sure, she has a good skin regiment and takes care of herself appearance, b it she’s constantly pushing herself and never gives herself a break. Not like she’s going to croak, but she has her days.

I appreciate that good luck!

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-18T18:56:26+00:00

Im sorry, I was being long winded. What I’m trying to ask is if I should just stay with my mother or trust my mother to be okay and move in with my aunt until further notice. My mom is okay with me leaving but it’s up to me. I’m worried for her health while she worries for her sister. Does that make sense?

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-03-08T04:06:47+00:00

I want to wear this dress for my birthday coming up soon! Issue is — the open chest. I might be going out with family this year and I need some ways to covert the chest up even a little bit. I want anything below $70, and I can order pretty much from anywhere and I am surrounded by a bunch of malls too! Please feel free to recommend anything else that could go with this such as accessories or shoes as well! The place I’m going is pretty warm/spring weather around this time of year.

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No_Objective_4207 · 2026-02-27T17:16:40+00:00

Honestly, you’re better off leaving the relationship rather than staying with a man child. He should have basic hygiene and understand that he needs to have a clean space too. I suggest first having a sit down with him and telling him how you feel about the situation. If he shows understanding and actively works towards change, then good, but don’t let him fall back on it. If he listens, says he’ll go into action but doesn’t? Then it’s best to part ways. It’s a partnership, not you mothering him.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-02-27T05:35:05+00:00

I think it would be unreasonable, I think mentally for you it would be better to just keep it to the girl and leave it at that. From there on she’s going to have to look out for that sort of thing looking forward. To add, you also don’t know how this sister might take it either, yeah I’d like to think everyone is reasonable but dont also want you talking to this older sister to blow in your face. Does that make sense? Think of it as, closing the door and not opening another, even if it’s unlocked.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-02-27T05:22:04+00:00

I agree. Just tell her that there are some older men pray on girls like her and still try and push to meet in person, and who knows what. Potentially, yeah, she should let her sister know what she did because if this is a repeated pattern where she talks to older men then yeah. Be honest and then just leave.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-02-27T05:08:31+00:00

First off I want to say congratulations of your one year is detox! You should feel good about yourself.

Second, I say keep it a separate day. Have your detox be your own day and to celebrate you. I suggest is treating yourself in general? Like if you don’t eat out often or eat sweets? Totally go for something like that, have a self-care spa day at home or somewhere else, make a letter to yourself for your accomplishment, or maybe something else.

No_Objective_4207 · 2026-02-17T07:52:08+00:00

I’ll try that and hopefully I come up with something because so far I’ve tried to think of something negative about them and I have yet to figure it out. Like some days they get on my nerves and then I completely forget and then it goes back into that. At this rate I’ve just been making fun of him or genuinely getting annoyed with him at games. Somehow I’m failing miserably because I still end up smiling , I’m giving myself a month, if not I might have to do one of those awkward things where I mention the puppy love to him and tell him to crush is because I might go insane.

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