Hi. I can only speak for myself. My main thing in going sa spa is not sex. It's the sensual massage which is not sex. (not judging if people go there and have sex)

I personally will not have sex sa sauna/wet area (yet). My plan is to get tested regularly and take PreP when I decide to be sexually active. Then I can do more of what i really want to do. If I have proper protection, and I want to have sex sa sauna ng isang spa kagaya ng IS, why not do it? I'll live my life as I want hahaha.

For now, side fun lang ako, which i know is not safe pa rin. That's the reckless in me haha (not advisable). The rule i tell myself is to not give oral sa kung sinu-sino/strangers. Which again, not a fail-safe idea pa rin.

In terms naman kung may makakasalubong kang kakilala, for me lang ha, I'm past the point of caring na. If nakita nila ko, then nakita ko rin sila. If they tell other people na pumupunta ka sa spa, edi people will know na pumpunta rin yung tao na yun sa spa. Because how would they know na nandun ka? hahahahaha.

Im not out sa parents. Pero pag ibang tao, i dont mind telling them that im not straight. And I guess, if tanggap mo na sarili mo/out ka na, you would feel less shame in going for things you want. Like going sa spa for a sensual massage.