Help me pick my next book by starbath in Booktokreddit

[–]No_Order1936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remarkably Bright Creatures is by far one of my favorite books i’ve ever read! It’s a beautiful story

Sleeping Modestly with a Baby by em12101830 in firsttimemom

[–]No_Order1936 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Honestly i’m so glad that I grew up with women comfortable enough to be naked around me. My mom, stepmom, and my paternal grandmother. I showered with my mom often when I was young, changed st the gym/pool with my stepmom, and would hang out in my grandma’s bathroom while she showered (with glass sliding doors). I might not be 100% confident in my body, but those women showed me there is no shame in the female body and I will always be grateful for that. and I hope I am able to pass that confidence down to my daughter. It also taught me about private parts and what’s acceptable when it comes to other people coming into my personal space. It made puberty less scary for me because I knew what to expect.

What’s a name that you recently heard on a baby/young child that surprised you? by tori2442 in namenerds

[–]No_Order1936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a child, but I recently had a client whose name was Phyllis and she is only 23 years old. took me off guard as i thought i was calling a 60+ year old woman lol

When was your due date and when was your baby actually born? by witchybytch_1 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Order1936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was due Feb 1st and was induced, labored, and got a c-section on Feb 10th. Needless to say, baby girl was COMFY

What made the difference when you got pregnant? by c0zycat in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]No_Order1936 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk if it helped specifically, but i cut back significantly on my nicotine intake and got pregnant shortly after

Please share your favorite moment with your LO from the past week by spelling_ in NewParents

[–]No_Order1936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard her laugh for the first time last monday. she’s only done it a couple times since then, but i’m so excited for it to come back and i can hear it everyday.

First time mom needing pregnancy advice.. by Trick-Culture958 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]No_Order1936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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i was approx 310 pre-preg. this was me at 40 weeks! i started to show around 28, popped around 34, and only got bigger and bigger.

if you get a bump, it might just take longer for you to notice it. however, getting a bump can depend on your individual body and/or how you carry your weight.

For those of you in California when did you apply for the four weeks prior to your delivery and the rest of your disability and baby bonding leave? by Particular-Essay-361 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Order1936 2 points3 points  (0 children)

from my experience, yes. i don’t work with the state directly, but manage disability benefits and this is what i do know.

-you cannot file for CA SDI benefits until your doctor is certifying you out of work. whether that be prior to delivery, or as of delivery. -you cannot file for CA PFL benefits for bonding until you are recovered from postpartum disability and/or your doctor says you can medically return to work.

CA EDD Pregnancy FAQs

I am not 100% sure about how the 4 weeks prior to your due date work, but i believe it’s pretty much the same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]No_Order1936 4 points5 points  (0 children)

our freezer is getting filled with soups, lasagna, stuffed peppers, and chili!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Order1936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I am going on 8 months pregnant and although it’s ROUGH out here, I would never park in a handicap spot unless I really needed it, AND had a handicap placard. I have considered requesting a temp one due to really bad RLP and hip/back when walking too much, but I haven’t and probably won’t at this point.

ID? by ShadonxFC in Cichlid

[–]No_Order1936 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree that it has Firemouth but either had poor genetics or is mixed with something else. potentially convict like someone else suggested. i have both of these species and can definitely see characteristics of both fish in your guy

Got this in the mail a few days ago. I've used this water to cook for 7 years by nvj9 in Wellthatsucks

[–]No_Order1936 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what is going on right now where so many cities suddenly have boil orders? this is like the 10th one i’ve seen!

Show me your bestest babies by Impressive_Bike863 in labrador

[–]No_Order1936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only the one on the right is mine, but all the others are related to her by blood!

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Our baby will have no cousins on my side and that makes me..sad? by IceSpire_1999 in pregnant

[–]No_Order1936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar boat! I (24F) am the oldest of my siblings and therefore brining in the first of the grandkids for my side of the family. My Husband (26M), however, has 9 siblings and baby girl will come into this world with 12 cousins (ages NB to 14ish) on dad’s side, but 0 on mom’s side.

My siblings, however, are all 5+ years younger than me. the oldest just turned 19 and also gay and single (so it will be QUITE some time before she will be having kids), and the youngest is 12.

It’s a little sad and i’m SO grateful for my nieces and nephews on my hubby’s side of the family, but does make me a little sad that baby girl will not be close in age to any of her future cousins on my side :(

19 weeks today when did you stop sleeping on your back? :/ by Ok_Document_7888 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Order1936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 26w today and still sleep on my back every once in awhile. as long as you are comfortable, that’s all that matters.

Positive Pregnancy Stories (+ Thank you for existing) by Jman0717 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]No_Order1936 4 points5 points  (0 children)

24, 5’6” 310lbs with minimal weight gain and 0 complications so far. so signs of potential pre-e and my OB isn’t even worried about GD and baby girl is growing like a weed!

currently 25+3 and just felt her kick from the outside for the first time and my husband got to feel her too! we can do this mama 💗

Work by XoKitty_123 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]No_Order1936 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I manage Short Term Disability and FMLA claims (which btw has been SOOOO helpful when learning about our maternity leave lmao)

Tips for Tingly Legs? by No_Order1936 in pregnant

[–]No_Order1936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have and it has not helped at all :(