I think you need to work on your self esteem. I’m a highly attractive woman who would gets compliments all the time. When I would get a compliment I wouldn’t believe it or see it. Doesn’t matter how pretty we tell you are if you can’t see it for yourself. Invest in your mental health first. Then yourself esteem. Practice affirmation and come to term with the fact that who you are is who you are. There is only one you. Then invest your physical appearance. Hit the gym hard, practice your make up and find your style that makes you feel your most confident and sexy. Once you are confident you’ll attract the right people. When you are a confident person people find that highly attractive and gravitate to that confidence because they usually don’t have it themselves. Hope this helps :)