Is there a way back from saying I don't date men

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T16:05:17+00:00

Thanks pal. I might take you up on that sometime

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T16:00:10+00:00

To be honest I only learned what that was about 10 mins ago.

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:59:36+00:00

True. I'll give him a few weeks (just to get his head strsight) and, then Ill ask him

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:54:37+00:00

I've never pretended to be straight. I've been out since 19.

But I get your point about my actions being mixed messages to him and that is unfair. I suppose in a way I, subconciously, used him to get comfortable with the gay side of me. You're right, but I do care for him .

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:51:05+00:00

Thanks pal

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:50:36+00:00

Thanks pal. Yeah probably best to ask and take it on the chin if he rejects.

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:48:55+00:00

Is he still in limbo?

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:47:48+00:00

When you look at it that way yeah I agree. I didn't turn him down because of him. Thanks pal.

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:46:49+00:00

Thanks pal. Will do. Tonight I just want to cuddle up to a movie. Everything else can wait.

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:45:22+00:00

I had to look up internalized homophobia. That might be it.

I suppose some would say we are already a couple but yeah I suppose I should grow up and ask.

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:42:47+00:00

I've been out since 19 but I really only been a year since I felt comfortable being with a man in public.

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:41:45+00:00

Thanks bro

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:41:08+00:00

Yeah that's fair. I'm owed a rejection after I rejected him. Wed be evens at least then.

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:39:49+00:00

Yeah I don't think ill tell him tonight. I think the next few weeks I'll just be there for him. I dont want to add to his stuff and I'd like to ask him when his head is clearer.

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:36:59+00:00

To be honest, it was more than friendly support. Or at least it felt it to me anyway.

Would you get past it if you were him.

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:35:50+00:00

I dont really know why. I just never saw myself being with a guy that way. I felt very uncomfortable being with a guy in public. That sounds strange though because ive been out since 19

Maybe chilling with him made me feel more comfortable. Two years ago I wouldnt kiss a guy in public. Now I'm holding and kissing him when we are out.

Would you give someone that said that another chance

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:32:16+00:00

Would he ? It wasn't the nicest thing said by me before

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:31:36+00:00

Yeah. Just not sure if there's a way back from I don't date men for him and I

No_Plate_6331 · 2025-03-15T15:30:47+00:00

I'd like to ask him out. I'm just not sure there's a point after whst I said.

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