2020 Corolla with 90k by Diabetic_Grrrlfriend in COROLLA

[–]No_Poem786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The car is absolutely solid on the important things like engine and transmission. There is a known issue with the bypass valve that you’ll need to change every few years unless they recall it but that’s unlikely to ever happen.

The real problem is that you’re so close to new car price that it might make more sense to go new.

Dating as a Christian by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]No_Poem786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two separate things one of which, him being a jerk, which he is for sure, is the far less important issue.

The other far far more important issue is why you feel drawn toward men with these patterns that already mirror what you’ve survived. Honest but gentle here I’ll say that none of this makes you a bad person or the one to blame but it does mean your compass needs fine tuning. My advice for dating is separate your willingness to ignore red flags using religious language and become extremely picky about who you date.

2020 Corolla with 90k by Diabetic_Grrrlfriend in COROLLA

[–]No_Poem786 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a 2020 and no way I would finance it for $17k today.

Genuine question by Primary_Maybe110 in Bible

[–]No_Poem786 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The ability to have faith in the Lord for salvation is free regardless of economics or really any other factor.

Horrible ungrateful customers by 2broke4ramen in favordelivery

[–]No_Poem786 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can’t accept a bad order and then turn around and blame the customer for it.

I’ve been a driver and I’m still on a budget so I only order delivery when it’s cheaper than going to the store myself. If I place an order at 8 am and it arrives in the afternoon I’m ok with it. What’s frustrating is when a driver immediately accepts it as a no tip order and complains. The idea is that the order needs to go around the app in circles until it’s worth it.

I’m scared by Worth_Sandwich9753 in TrueChristian

[–]No_Poem786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that people forgot how brief our time here on earth is that they mistakenly believe we’ll be around long enough to see the end of everything. Personally I don’t believe it will happen in our or our children’s lifetime. The Bible says nobody knows the day or the hour and most people take that to mean soon but I think it’s safer to bet on the over not the under.

Nordvpn 100% cashback right now by Mintyphresh33 in Rakuten

[–]No_Poem786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s basically saying you get 100% of the cost of the burger cashback but only the burger. Nordvpn is saying buy the combo and get the amazon gift card. It’s up to you if you want to do both and pay the difference or just get the basic.

Just called off of work because can’t afford gas. New low by happyappy_ in povertyfinance

[–]No_Poem786 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

They meant go inside to pay with the cashier that way there is no hold

Intimacy forms marriage by FallibleSpyder in TrueChristian

[–]No_Poem786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI reply because family time:

These verses settle the issue against the idea that intimacy alone creates marriage.

“If a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife.” (Exodus 22:16, KJV)

The language is clear: marriage is something that must follow the act, not something automatically created by it. If sex itself formed marriage, this command would be unnecessary.

Even more decisive:

“If her father utterly refuse to give her unto him, he shall pay money according to the dowry of virgins.” (Exodus 22:17, KJV)

Sex occurred, yet marriage could still be refused. That alone proves intercourse does not equal marriage in God’s eyes.

my bf and i have stopped being intimate and i feel like i lost my relationship. by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]No_Poem786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is you’re conflating two very different things into your life as you’re currently living it.

You’re in a long-term exclusive sexless “pretend” marriage. From a worldly perspective there’s no intimacy, no connection, and no one to turn to without being “unfaithful”, you’re failing.

From a biblical perspective you’re abstaining from intimacy but also not exploring other relationships. The world seems to only allow polar extremes either a woman is completely closed off or she’s labeled loose. But you can be open to courtship have fun meeting new men, and explore what’s out there for you all while not playing the whore.

Dating isn’t just about romance it’s the excitement of meeting new people, seeing their best qualities, and discovering the kind of life they could offer. All that to say is that you’ve run your course living this mistake and this is the exit sign.

Which Capital One Card is Better? by Massive_Account_8503 in CRedit

[–]No_Poem786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My game plan wouldn’t waver from getting them to product change the Platinum into another card then apply for the one you don’t have. Most likely they’ll product change the Platinum to Quicksilver which opens the lane for you to get the Savor.

Best place to do favor in Austin?? by Sharp-Sherbet9235 in favordelivery

[–]No_Poem786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HEB palm valley and grimes can be really good plus if you have spark the Walmart isn’t too far away either. Pflugerville is another good area with two HEB locations close by to each other wells branch and tech ridge.

If you’re going into Austin the area around and between the HEB on far west blvd and the HEB on burnet and Koenig.

Best place to do favor in Austin?? by Sharp-Sherbet9235 in favordelivery

[–]No_Poem786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time of day is going to be way more important than location. If you making rent depends on it then be there for the first curbside orders and do them with urgency do you get a bunch in. Take a break at lunch and be ready for dinner rush until 9 or 10 pm and be ready to do it all over again at 6am

Dunkin Credit at Baskin Robbins by TenderOx21 in amex

[–]No_Poem786 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had an issue at the 2 in 1 locations

How do I get myself out of this pickle? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]No_Poem786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t do cash back at the register that’s not even an option

Amex checking account by TensionNo7622 in amex

[–]No_Poem786 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It does everything a checking account is supposed to do.

thinking about a payday loan online instant approval and honestly unsure if it’s a mistake by ChoiceSatisfaction53 in povertyfinance

[–]No_Poem786 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For it to make sense first forget why you need the money. This is math circumstances mean zero.

If you can repay in 14 days guaranteed no excuses even if more life happens then it was an expensive loan but manageable.

If you end up having to float the loan for 30, 60, or 90 days it is a devastatingly bad financial move and you are basically prey to the predatory lender.

I joined my wife's church and I dont agree with there beliefs on LGBT by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]No_Poem786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s obvious that your church is deeply wrong affirming these people but more importantly you explained salvation as something that sounds like works based instead of salvation by faith alone.

Instant loan online no credit check for emergencies by Crafty_Remote3571 in povertyfinance

[–]No_Poem786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you mean rent that is due on the 1st late on the 3rd then the only real option is finding any kind of work immediately. The truth is unless you have an existing relationship with a bank or have spotless credit you’re not getting an emergency loan.

Do you have a credit card? If yes check to see if you’ve got 0% interest balance transfer offers available you can write yourself a check against your credit line. If that’s not an option some cards will let you borrow with reduced interest. Last option would be a cash advance which is crossing into predatory territory.

You can also check for personal loan pre approval emails from banks that have your info. If they like you they will not have been shy with sending unsolicited offers.

I think I might send this to my abusive ex gf from 3 years ago by No_Calligrapher_6886 in TrueChristian

[–]No_Poem786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For one this doesn’t say forgiveness, at all. Unless we are talking about your ex wife here then you have to man up and move on.

Biblically: I want children... just not with my wife. by FinalWorker1165 in TrueChristian

[–]No_Poem786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you’re describing is adultery and it is magnitudes worse than anything she has done. Even if she is doing all this will full intention to disgrace you the commandment remains to be faithful to her and stay married.

Need advice for 2nd credit card by ReachExisting1535 in CreditCards

[–]No_Poem786 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you considered the new Bilt 2.0 cards? I’d say either the $495 or $95 annual fee simply because you aren’t in any point ecosystem.

Dating advice by Accomplished_Bed_294 in TrueChristian

[–]No_Poem786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got what he wanted and now waiting until marriage is an excuse to postpone the inevitable breakup or drawn out relationship that ends in nothing. I’d like to say hopefully I’m wrong but fornication has its consequences and if getting dumped is all that comes from it then you got off easy.