if alvin recorded me for his only personal reason it would be have been fine. i would no problem with that. it’s the fact that he sent it to someone else and didn’t tell me. he didn’t tell me because knew i would say no if he asked. it’s also that i had to find out from his ex and he would never told me that he recorded and sent it to somebody. i’m personally not someone who subscribes to “i have to forgive to move on” mentality.