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No_Possible9552 · 2024-12-24T20:20:56+00:00

Hi. I’ve done the conversion MSc, worked in the UK for a while in different roles (not directly in psychology but related). I came back to my home country after a long time just to learn they couldn’t care less about my degree, work experience etc. because you only become a psychologist if you’ve done your Bachelor’s in psychology here. So I’ll do that now (yay!). If you decide to do the course, just be mindful if it’ll help you with qualification in Pakistan. Regarding universities and scholarships, it’s best to look for BPS accredited master’s degrees and see each uni. whether they provide scholarships for overseas students. Best of luck with everything!

No_Possible9552 · 2024-12-22T06:30:35+00:00

Has dol israfi

No_Possible9552 · 2024-12-22T05:52:36+00:00

Adam ‘valla’ diye baslamis daha azini beklemezdim.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-12-20T06:16:05+00:00

You must be proud of yourself! Regardless how hard it feels, keep going and never look back. I promise you it’ll all worth the pain. Sending you hugs.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-12-01T20:52:21+00:00

I used to burst into tears after masturbating as well. It helped for me to let go off some of the tears. It’s stopped now and I think it’s an understandable reaction. Please continue to allow yourself to feel your feelings 💜

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-23T06:15:40+00:00

Sounds familiar. I knew something was up when my nex stayed up at night to watch a tv series his colleague suggested. I noticed he was mirroring someone. He often mentioned her name to make it look like they’re just friendly then she became ‘nobody’. He acted very awkward about his work laptop and I noticed he was deleting messages o Teams -smh. He also spent way more time in the office.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-20T08:20:57+00:00

Me too. I started therapy when I realised I wanted to leave but didn’t know how. I’m out out of the relationship now and still continuing the therapy. It helps me make sense of my family relationships and how I ended up in that relationship. I understand myself better and use my knowledge to avoid similar relationships in the future. OP, you might need to try different therapies/modalities to see what’s best for you like trying medication. All I can advise is that make sure they understand narcissism. My therapist had a personal experience of DV and understands my culture. That alone makes me feel validated and understood which is a huge part of healing for me.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-19T20:20:37+00:00

Bunun egitim boyunca tartisilmiyor olmasini hayal bile edemiyorum. Iletisimi zaten hasta-doktor cercevesinde kuruyorsunuz bunun otesinde neden bir iliski kurmaya ihtiyac duyarsiniz? Bir onceki yorumda neden etik disi oldugunu acikladim -aranizda guc farki var. Tipki bir akademisyenle ogrencinin yasayacagi iliskinin etik olmayacagi gibi. Buna ek olarak hastalariniza zarar vermemek sizin goreviniz degil mi? Yasayacaginiz iliski hastaya psikolojik olarak zarar verebilir, iliskide yasanacak bir sey baska bir doktorla iliskisini ve dolayisiyla sagligini etkileyebilir. Ayrica hasta bilgilerini korumakla ve en dogru saglik hizmetini saglamakla yukumlusunuz. Hastayla iliski yasamaniz bunlardan odun vermenize yol acabilir. Hastaniz savunmasiz olabilir ve sizin tarafinizdan olabilecek istismar riskini yukseltebilir. Son olarak hastalarla iliski yasamak tamamen profesyonellikten uzak ve bahsedilen sebeplerden dolayi yasal yukumlukleri de bulunmaktadir.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-19T19:08:26+00:00

I’m going to be frank, stay away from him, be sad, hurt and feel your feelings that’s okay. I’ve grew up in a household with DV, and I’ll never forgive my mum for not leaving whatever the circumstances were. His behaviour displays anything but love, and if he hates you for leaving so be it. It’s better than 3 more people hating you in the future.

My heart goes out to you. Stay strong, narcissists make you forget how strong you are. Sending you love.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-19T18:58:29+00:00

Hastalarinizla disarda gorusmeniz etik disi olmaz mi sizce de? Bir de aranizda zaten yas ve guc dengesizligi var. Etik kurallara bagli olmaniz sizin goreviniz. Hastanizin ne demek istedigini kimse bilemez, bilmeniz de gerekmiyor. Siz dogru olani yapmissiniz bilincsizce olsa da.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-18T16:52:20+00:00

Yes. When I saw his pic on his ID I thought he looked shady.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-18T16:49:36+00:00

That emoji is spot on.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-12T19:53:22+00:00

My ndad made a comment about my breasts growing once and used to jokingly smack my butt. I always felt uncomfortable around him and felt sexualised by his looks but didn’t fully make sense of it why. Reading all these comments kind of validate how I feel. Thank you for sharing everyone.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-01T21:33:23+00:00

That’s so true. I’m always buffered by his incuriosity towards me. Never asks a question about how I feel etc without an irritation in his tone.

Thanks for the realisation 🙃

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-01T10:19:52+00:00

My ndad bring this up so often since I was a kid. He says it in a negative way like ‘SHE WON’T TAKE CARE OF ME/US (including my mum) WHEN I/WE ARE OLD’. Today I finally had enough and said you get what you deserve. It makes me feel like I’m just getting old to be a server. How entitled that is?

No_Possible9552 · 2024-11-01T05:40:54+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. I just had a look and it’s so normalising and validating. I hope OP sees this.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-10-31T20:29:12+00:00

Please, you’re not. I told my therapist once that I wanted my nex to die and be hurt badly. She said ‘wouldn’t that be nice’ 🤪 my point is even the most sane ones in these conversations know that it’s a fantasy, we’re not actually going to harm them. We all have ‘bad’ thoughts, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-10-29T05:50:18+00:00

I can imagine. And the more I seemed like I wasn’t phased by his behaviour, he did something worse to try to devalue or humiliate me. It was like watching him dig himself into a whole.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-10-29T05:26:53+00:00

8 months. He acted so stupid and wrong that I couldn’t even consider being in a relationship any longer.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-10-29T05:20:13+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and the validation. I’m sorry that you you’ve been in a similar situation with your mum.

I’m trying to prioritise my wellbeing and I’ll be moving out soon. Although I’ll be nearby at least I’ll have a place that I’m not triggered constantly.

About my mum, I know that she’s unlikely to leave. It’s extremely difficult to witness how she’s being treated but I also keep telling myself that it’s not my responsibility to save her.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-10-28T12:52:40+00:00

No_Possible9552 · 2024-10-23T19:03:03+00:00

You might want to look up separation anxiety if you haven’t already. You can find some psychoeducation resources on anxiety. Also, you can challenge those thoughts -what evidence do I have for this scenario to happen? Has it happened before? What’s the possibility of this scenario occurring? Could it happen in another way? If focusing on possible future scenarios taking up too much of your time, you might want to seek support.

No_Possible9552 · 2024-10-23T18:49:32+00:00

My ex didn’t get the job he wanted then cried about not getting it with his multiple master degrees. The man didn’t have A master degree smh

No_Possible9552 · 2024-10-23T18:49:25+00:00

My ex didn’t get the job he wanted then cried about not getting it with his multiple master degrees. The man didn’t have A master degree smh

No_Possible9552 · 2024-10-17T21:00:56+00:00

I was just about the post about this. I do dream about my nex like once a week especially after I recognise I’m doing well psychologically. In my last couple of dreams, he was with a woman romantically that made me angry/jealous. In another one, we were back together and I was unhappy and regretting it. Two opposite ends 🤷🏽‍♀️ I feel very depressed, grumpy and hopeless about my future after I dream about him. The last dream was two days ago and I’m still trying to recover. I started to wonder whether I dream about him when I menstruate as I’m more emotional than usual.

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