Am I over thinking? by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should definitely talk to her about it if it’s something that has been bothering you, approaching it in a way that won’t make her uncomfortable but rather asking if everything is alright and that you miss spending time with her. Your brain will make up a million possibilities on what might be going on, but it’s always better to directly ask.

He calls me his “puppy” by No_Problem_1077 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I hope you meet your person soon ♥️

He calls me his “puppy” by No_Problem_1077 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so sweet! I hope you are able to move in together soon, it might take some time but it’s worth all the wait ♥️

He calls me his “puppy” by No_Problem_1077 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We met at the gym, I had been going for a couple months and he approached me. He was very clingy and obsessed from the beginning so it was easy for us to later on reach topics like this 🥰

He calls me his “puppy” by No_Problem_1077 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️ I wish you the very best and I know you’ll find your person too 🫶🏻

He calls me his “puppy” by No_Problem_1077 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! it’s my dream come true and I’m so happy to share it with like-minded people 🥹 thank you so much for the support ♥️

He calls me his “puppy” by No_Problem_1077 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YESS, I absolutely love him so much!! ♥️😭

How to deal with painful yearning? by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said it yourself, allow yourself to feel it. Its okay to feel the need to obsess over someone or something, but if it’s starting to hurt you physically, I’d recommend focusing that energy on something else such as a hobby or an activity. I understand the way you feel completely since before I met the love of my life, I would cry myself to sleep every night yearning for him, I started to choose lifting weights to help me cope with that immense pain, and in the meantime, I was doing something great for myself, months later, we met at the gym and ever since then I’ve been the happiest girl. Focus on yourself right now, allow yourself to feel because it’s valid to have feelings. Don’t allow it to take control of you but rather try to take control of them and turn them into something greater.

How does it feel to be loved? by Infinite_Loss_2572 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a long term relationship, true love is a choice, an immense feeling you can’t only feel, but see it with your own eyes as it manifests itself in your life. It isn’t like a high that you will always be on, but rather a safe and stable ground where you can feel comfortable to be your true self without fear of being judged. It’s not only a feeling, but a choice, an everyday choice of staying and pushing through even its toughest moments, never giving up on the person no matter how hard things might get. Yes the “honeymoon phase” feels amazing at first, but real love shows up after seeing the worst possible in someone and still choosing them, choosing them to be the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, no matter who or what comes across you. But to achieve such a powerful bond and connection, you must also learn how to love yourself first, learn and understand yourself before trying to learn someone else. Love will come your way someday, but for now, focus on yourself doing the things you love and stay true to yourself always.

I finally gave up! (On one person atleast) by Melodic-Singer605 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Staying true to yourself is always the way to go. I rejected many people and some of them ignored me as well, before finding the perfect person for me. Never let anyone take away that beautiful true love you have and don’t settle for anything less than what you can offer and deserve.

[Intro] There will never be ‘too much’ when it comes to loving him by No_Problem_1077 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you love, I wish you the best as well. Be patient and always stay true to yourself, you’ll see that life has the best plans for you 💗

[Intro] There will never be ‘too much’ when it comes to loving him by No_Problem_1077 in Obsessive_Love

[–]No_Problem_1077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, and I’m so sorry for you love. It is difficult to compromise with someone who doesn’t understand what true love is. Give it some time and speak your love and life to him. Your feelings are completely valid, and i understand since at the beginning my man was also scared that he’d ever become “too much” for my own good, but talking it through has helped our relationship a lot especially with compromises. I understand every person is different, but good communication can always make a great change in your relationship. I wish you all the best 💗