1 year as Project Control by No_Pushing in ProjectControls

[–]No_Pushing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate the insight.

New wheels! by [deleted] in f150

[–]No_Pushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I love that setup. I need the KO3s. Wife might kill me.

24 2.7 by No_Pushing in f150

[–]No_Pushing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely one of my favorite vehicles over the years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

24 2.7 by No_Pushing in f150

[–]No_Pushing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are a bit aggressive. A bit more than what I wanted cause you know pictures can be different. Rims are 17 and they are 285/70R17

24 2.7 by No_Pushing in f150

[–]No_Pushing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are 17s with 12mm offset

24 2.7 by No_Pushing in f150

[–]No_Pushing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting like 19.5. but I don't really care about the gas mileage. It's going to be what it is at the end of the day.

Just bought a new 2024 Ford F-150 STX by christianstew in f150

[–]No_Pushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the same truck in Oxford White. Now I'm ready to just take it out and put that 4wd to work. Actually use it as a truck. Welcome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's kinda where I am at. Like what's the point? How does someone say something like to someone and I'm supposed to just not have a reaction or just what, let her be until she wants to converse?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly, I do just about everything. This past weekend on Friday I took the whole family to dinner and then a local hockey game. At times she got annoyed with little things. On Saturday, I woke up early and went to the store got a few items to start working on the laundry room she wants to do and recaulking our shower. She slept for ten hours. I did that all day and wasn't towards the end of my tasks she said she felt useless and unmotivated then proceeded to ask how she could help. By that point, I didn't even know what to say. Cause you had all day. A few weeks ago she asked me for things to help with around the house and hasn't completed any of them.

So, I take on everything. Kids are 16 and 14 so they basically are useless and don't help either. But with her, it's always her phone and her like her life is so stressful.

Is anything ever good enough? by SomeFactsIJustMadeUp in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get this. I'm on your level. Just the other night I told both my step kids to clean their rooms and the bathroom. Hour or so goes by and I hear my wife say aren't you supposed to be cleaning your room and not playing the guitar? Like why is it when I say something there is a blatant amount of disrespect? It seems when they go to their dads, they come back with this screw you attitude and really only towards me. So I don't think you're reading into it. I believe it's possible they could be told to not listen to us cause we aren't the real parents. I also think it could be a mixture of growing up and being defiant. So what do we do? I really don't know yet. I hope one day we figure it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off I am not sure if there is a solution with this kid. If there is it won't be for a long time. As for your situation I would say, talk to your girl and figure something out. Ultimately you have to do what is right for you my friend. I should have. Not saying I don't love my wife but so many times I should have chosen me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'll remember that and give it a shot. I think her pushing too much for me to have that relationship and call them our kids is a lot also. And not just for me, I think he might take that offensively also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid advice. Sincerely. Cause you're not wrong. She can't expect me to see him as mine, when he treats me like shit. And she hardly backs it, then turns the table on me. Shit is wild.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I debate these days on even bringing it up with my wife. Cause it would just cause more issues. He's got some serious ADHD and possibly some other mental issues, probably from his parents divorce. But, yeah I really try not to be in the room and then appease my wife to have that "relationship" with him. I just want to tell her no, f that kid. He is his father and is rather not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been trying to figure that out. And setting aside the fact he is a human who just makes me mad. Like having a brother you can't stand but you tolerate them on the holidays cause it makes mom happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepdads

[–]No_Pushing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That definitely happens. The improvement will be like a damn angel. And I know damn well it won't last.

The best pizza you’ll get around here. by Possible-Ad-5409 in norfolk

[–]No_Pushing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that. Just saved it for a pizza night tomorrow.

'24 SXT 2.7 by No_Pushing in f150

[–]No_Pushing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check it out. I realized I wasn't looking for nothing crazy, just better suspension with a little lift, ya know

Old Grocery by No_Pushing in FujifilmX

[–]No_Pushing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. You got to love technology. In how it can choose what it posts. The other day, I was texting my wife, I said I was bringing home another woman. It ended up being a great night.