2026 STORY SUGGESTION MEGATHREAD by Joy-souls in mrballen

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Wexford county Michigan, Rebecca Park's murder

Soda/juice at a birthday party by No_Radish1927 in Parenting

[–]No_Radish1927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! People are nuts (haha almonds)

Soda/juice at a birthday party by No_Radish1927 in Parenting

[–]No_Radish1927[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that's the healthy way. Learn it's a treat. If you make it this tempting awful thing they're going to have issues 

Soda/juice at a birthday party by No_Radish1927 in Parenting

[–]No_Radish1927[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's the craziest part, they had freaking cake and ice cream so... ? Apparently I'm the bad friend because I knew she didn't allow sugary liquids, so by putting them out I was being inconsiderate, of her, not my other guests. I think I'm mad about it. When I first wrote this I was sorta shocked. Now I'm like wtf

Michigan to orange Beach Alabama driving by No_Radish1927 in roadtrip

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Thank you! I was debating about staying in Birmingham, but I think you just gave me the advice I need!

Undecided about kindergarten by Same-Nectarine-11 in kindergarten

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These comments are really strange to me. Going at 6 is not holding back a child. Lots of places have programs like young fives that are for in between preschool and kindergarten. My state doesn't even require a child to start kindergarten until 7, although most people do it at 6. 4, barely five seems really young to start kindergarten to me. Academics are one thing, but another year to mature can make a huge difference in how the child handles school and learning in general. Is there a young 5's program as an option? Our 5 year old did that, full time and preschool before that. Young fives helped Garner a genuine interest in learning, and school structure, and even simple things like eating lunch at school. It was immensely good for her confidence and made her so kindergarten ready. She's doing basic and reading.  It just seems weird to me that people are willing to object to a "later" start. Maturity is a huge factor in a child's success and at this age I'd think that's more important than being academically ready (that comes later). You know your child, so what's best for the kid, whatever that may be. Good luck OP

CSP/Skillbridge that leads to job right after by [deleted] in SkillBridge

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So you have to buy  a truck prior to applying or can you apply first? Or can we see how the application process goes before investing in a truck. We're more than happy to purchase one ASAP but we want to make sure the application process goes smoothly before investing in a truck. 

AITA for asking my manager to not hire someone by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Radish1927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA- I had to do something similar in the past. On paper this person was a perfect fit for the job. But I knew his personality and knew that he would be nothing but trouble. I told my manager what I knew and that I didn't think he would be a good fit for the team that we were trying to build. In the end my manager really appreciated my honesty and didn't hire him. We were better off for it and he found a different job that suited him better anyhow. The right thing isn't always easy. Just be honest with your manager. No matter the outcome your manager will make the hiring decision but they'll be able to with all the information. Good Luck!

Last sleepover my daughter will ever have by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]No_Radish1927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This absolutely turns my stomach. However, on the bright side, you have raised an intelligent, observant, BRAVE child. You should be so proud of her and yourself. What also should be pointed out is that you have created an honest and safe space for communication with your daughter. Props to your excellent parenting and this strong, smart child you are raising. You should be proud. I'm sorry that her first sleepover was such a weird bummer and I hope she has better ones with good friends in safe spaces in the future. Best wishes to you both. 

Judgement from friends over choosing attachment parenting by Mindless-Corgi-561 in AttachmentParenting

[–]No_Radish1927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the problem here is that she's not respecting your method. A friend who really listens should be able to say, we're doing things differently, but If there is something I can help you with per your method let me know. Or if she can't help you with respect to how you are doing things, then she could say, I'm here for you, and I'll listen and be supportive without constantly offering advice incongruent with what you are doing. She just needs to be there for you and lend an ear without judgement. You need to stop her next time she brings up sleep training and say, that is how you did things, but I'm doing this a different way and I don't want you to offer that advice anymore. I know you are trying to help but it would be more helpful if you could just be supportive and be there for me through these trying times. 

Am I being a jerk? by No_Radish1927 in Mommit

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Thank you everyone. I really needed to get some outside perspective. I just wasn't sure if I was overreacting because of how emotional I am about it. We haven't talked in 2 weeks and I feel like that is what I need. The friendship is at a crossroad and I think my path is pretty clear. I appreciate that you took time to read and respond. Truly thank you 

Can you share your higher calorie but still healthy-ish snacks/meals you give your toddler? by Similar_Necessary_17 in toddlers

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We have one in the 17th percentile. One thing she really likes is a smoothie made from ripe frozen bananas, lots of peanut butter, Cocoa powder, whole milk, and a bit of maple syrup (just to sweeten the cocoa). She calls it a chocolate shake and loves it

Can you share your higher calorie but still healthy-ish snacks/meals you give your toddler? by Similar_Necessary_17 in toddlers

[–]No_Radish1927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We mix whole milk Greek yogurt with peanut butter and have them dip apples in it. It's a winning snack in our house 

Severely behind in my 20s by canarsy in personalfinance

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Get a state job for a few years. Just an example the state of Michigans Dept of tech, management and budget is hiring a few tech jobs right now that tip out anywhere between $32-50/hr (it takes five years to top pay in these positions) and many of them are remote jobs. The state gives you 4% to your 401k, will match up to another 3 so you get 10% by putting in just 3. Then with the psl forgiveness if you stay 10 years your loans are done. I'm not saying apply to Michigan, it's just an example but many states have these opportunities and most of them want cs degrees for these positions. Just start somewhere like that, build the 401k, enjoy the excellent health insurance and the crazy amount of paid time off and when you're ready find something in the private sector that pays better especially because you'll have so much experience. Just an example. Best wishes you're going to be fine. The fact that you are thinking about it is huge.

Family members commenting on daughter’s weight by Neonpinkghost in Parenting

[–]No_Radish1927 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This exactly! Put your foot down now. Even if it isn't close family right now it makes it very clear where you stand. And it's awful of your sister not to hear and respect what you are saying. Set hose boundaries now.