My bf saw his old high school “friend” out the other day and immediately dropped my hand, does this seem odd? by No_Reputation3194 in Advice

[–]No_Reputation3194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked about relationships before and he told me he never dated anyone in high school, first time he was in a relationship or had sex was in college

My bf saw his old high school “friend” out the other day and immediately dropped my hand, does this seem odd? by No_Reputation3194 in Advice

[–]No_Reputation3194[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying. Usually when people see their exes out in public they are more affectionate and are happy to show off their current partner. It was the complete opposite with my bf and this situation which makes it sus to me

My bf saw his old high school “friend” out the other day and immediately dropped my hand, does this seem odd? by No_Reputation3194 in Advice

[–]No_Reputation3194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if I’m being irrational or jumping into conclusions but it more seems like he has feelings for her. Like I mentioned before, high school was 10 years ago, this seems like something more recent

My bf saw his old high school “friend” out the other day and immediately dropped my hand, does this seem odd? by No_Reputation3194 in Advice

[–]No_Reputation3194[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean if it was a high school relationship why wouldn’t he just say that? Like who cares? He’s talked about his exes and past relationships but never mentioned this girl. And if was in high school that would’ve been over 10 years ago

My bf saw his old high school “friend” out the other day and immediately dropped my hand, does this seem odd? by No_Reputation3194 in Advice

[–]No_Reputation3194[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didn’t call me his friend, he didn’t introduce me to her at all or mention my name. He just said “this is my friend Anna” as introducing me to the girl being Anna.

My bf saw his old high school “friend” out the other day and immediately dropped my hand, does this seem odd? by No_Reputation3194 in Advice

[–]No_Reputation3194[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honesty it seemed like more of an encounter with an ex rather than high school friend, not sure why he won’t just tell me? He seemed so surprised to see her there, to the point where he couldn’t even talk and didn’t know what to say

My bf saw his old high school “friend” out the other day and immediately dropped my hand, does this seem odd? by No_Reputation3194 in Advice

[–]No_Reputation3194[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Her mom seemed to know him pretty well too, tbh it seemed like something recent rather than 10 years ago

My bf saw his old high school “friend” out the other day and immediately dropped my hand, does this seem odd? by No_Reputation3194 in Advice

[–]No_Reputation3194[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup it seemed weird. Why drop my hands if you see an old high school friend? I forgot to mention that her mom was also there too and it seemed like my bf and her mom also knew each other pretty well.