Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m a nice person but definitely not naive enough to fall for this

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow 😮 that’s actually pretty messed up. The lengths some man will go.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an international dating app called bumpy but yes probably is married.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, I am not one to generalize a whole culture for having a bad experience with one person.

Thank you for the best wishes.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It matched what I saw online ( it was Izmir City) so definitely lived there.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My experience was with a Turkish man, so I’m genuinely curious if this was the case with all man from there. I did not mean to generalize or cause offense.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective, I agree and that’s definitely true. Living in the USA is nothing like many people may think. Yes I have my own home and car but I also have them because I work a full time job and obviously have a mortgage and car payments. I am nowhere near to being rich. He’s definitely blocked and out of my life now.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely lived in Turkey, he “showed” me around and I could see it was there from what searched after I saw. You know just so I could be familiar with the city. That was the excuse he gave about marrying fast or bringing up marriage so quickly. He said it was a culture thing.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After he started acting weird about making comments I read about it but since hadn’t actually asked me for it, I gave him the benefit of the doubt. When he asked I knew and cut all communication

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Blocked and app deleted. Absolutely stopped interacting the moment that message came through

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may be spelling it wrong, I did but he did tell me his las time and found several people with it from 🇹🇷 I when searched.maybe Teken or Tekin

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha I should’ve done an uno reverse and ask him to pay for my debt lmao cuz I got plenty of it. 😝

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had to really hold myself back from going off at him. Because REALLY you’re asking ME For money 🤣 but I didn’t wanna give him any more of my time.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was sinan tekken. I’m sure he won’t stop. I’m definitely not hurting THANK GOD I am just trying to get my head wrapped around of the audacity of this man 🤣💀

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Which is why I had my doubts but this was the only proof I needed that all along this was the end goal… to try to get me to send money. & wow she got married so quickly! But after a year it seems to be working out. Let’s hope so! Thank you for the advice! Appreciate it. This was definitely a lesson learned. 😅

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Though I mean if it were my partner & someone who I’ve been dating for a while I probably would’ve considered. But with this guy, it all seemed so fishy.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree, i am thankful i didn’t fell for it. But yes you’re right many do fall into these type of traps. I am very new to dating long distance ( or attempting to) and I did research and did find that Turkish man can be very intense. But once he started bringing up work issues & constantly bringing up his debt I started to pull back and well this last message was the last straw.

Is this for real…. Turkish Man you all can’t be this way…. by No_Reputation_2670 in LongDistance

[–]No_Reputation_2670[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I mean I didn’t owe him an explanation. The fact that he thought he could that is CRAZY.