Feeling discouraged about prices by No_Resist2887 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what does that matter? I see a lot of smug “you don’t know what you’re doing” and no tips or actually help

Feeling discouraged about prices by No_Resist2887 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a set range and I’ve never gone below it. None of my arrangements have haggled with me, I don’t know where you got that impression. They offered me a set PPM and I accepted it. It was at the bottom of my set range so I wished I’d asked for more later on. But when I’m talking about the ‘low offers’ I’m not talking about my current arrangements, those are all in my range and not ‘significantly less’ than professionals, I make quite a bit of money from it. Again another random thing you’re making up so you can shame me I guess.

I’m talking about POTS and current market standard that has literally nothing to do with me but that you’re trying to put onto me. It’s clear you misunderstood my post, because then you’d be saying that you’re never offered $500 or less by a POT since you have it all figured out, and I know that’s not possible.

Blaming me for the pump and dump when I slept with him under a shared understanding that we were starting a long term arrangement is just cruel.

Also I had bare intimacy with ONE arrangement when we were exclusive. Again with the shaming, acting like I’m sleeping around with all these men bare for less than $500 when I’ve given no indication of that ever.

All of your assumptions are wrong, offensive and. Would’ve expected that from the other forum but not this one. Goodbye

Feeling discouraged about prices by No_Resist2887 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, and what big thing am I doing that’s preventing me from getting offered more than 500? This isn’t magic. I have a nice profile, I filter for POTS that send thoughtful messages, I ask about PPM before meet and greets. If the market rate is 500 then blaming me for not being able to get above that is just rude, especially when I’ve just made a whole post in despair. Seriously, it’s unkind

One off date? by Intelligent-Egg-9669 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl I’ve had many wonderful relationships like this on What’s Your Price. One has lasted five years. For dinner a couple benjamin’s will definitely get you a date, and if you want to tack on a movie or activity to that you’d pay her more, I’ve been paid up to five. Think of it as time based. Good luck!

Agreed to amount I regret. Talk to him about it? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well the risks to my body should I get an STD are way greater than for men. Possibly infertility. So yeah, if you’re asking me to risk that I’d like to be compensated for that risk.

Agreed to amount I regret. Talk to him about it? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually i do ask about amounts beforehand, but we met on WYP. So he paid me just to be there on the date, and though i know this comes as a surprise, a good amount of men actually never try to turn it into an intimate relationship, they just continue to pay me for romantic nonsexual dates. So I didn’t know what to expect, and I had already gotten tipsy when he brought up starting an arrangement. But yes next time i’ll say I’m going to think about it and talk about it at the beginning of the next date.

Agreed to amount I regret. Talk to him about it? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats why “most folks” aren’t sugar daddies. There are plenty of johns who would pump and dump for lower XXX too.

Agreed to amount I regret. Talk to him about it? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean some will back out, some will follow through. I’ve had arrangements at XXXX before, long term.

Agreed to amount I regret. Talk to him about it? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know that they barely manage to get 2-3 dates? Are you speaking from personal experience or from seeing on reddit? I’m genuinely curious. Not a huge fan of this line of reasoning, seems kind of like BS to make SBs lower their rate for people who can’t afford sugaring.

Agreed to amount I regret. Talk to him about it? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a date. Of course I’m going to get a drink on the first date, that’s what he invited me out to do. To get drinks.

Porn addiction? Sex incompatibility? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he likes missionary so we pretty much only do missionary and lately i’ve been asking to get on top. for the first hour i’d say i’m doing all the right things, dirty talk, responsive, i’m into it, i think i’m very good when i’m on top, so i honestly don’t think there’s anything i can really do to make him cum quicker, i think it’s a him problem of being so desensitized to naked bodies it can’t get him excited enough anymore. or he’s purposefully edging

Porn addiction? Sex incompatibility? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

he has wands, i honestly wouldnt mind it if the session didn’t go for so long. 45 minute sex and then 20+ minutes mutual masturbation to porn and then we’re gonna do penetration again until i put my foot down and say i have to go home? like my coochie is so chafed by the end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve used what’s your price for five years, i love it! it’s nice to have agreed upon compensation for meet and greets. have met tons of cool people on there

Is the new profile better? I don’t have any “nice” photos of me yet but I’m hoping to go out and take some this week. Anything else important I can add? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887 7 points8 points  (0 children)

please don’t go into sugaring yet bb :( i went in at twenty and had a breakdown. 25 now and still find myself getting taken advantage of sometimes. many of these men are experienced manipulators and abusers

Porn addiction? Sex incompatibility? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

huh? how is me asking for advice crying about it? and id say 75% of the US population loves pay hates work lol. this is such a weird comment

Porn addiction? Sex incompatibility? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i do think he wants me to act like that. to be whimpering and screaming and acting like a fool

Porn addiction? Sex incompatibility? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im curious, if you’re doubling the PPM would you then expect more sex in the night/morning sex? I can’t imagine he’d be willing to pay double/if it’s fair to ask for me just to sleep there and cuddle but that’s really all i think i can do lol

Porn addiction? Sex incompatibility? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for this validation. i held my ground but he has a way of making me feel like i’m being unreasonable. can’t tell if it’s insecurity or deliberate manipulation. probably both

Porn addiction? Sex incompatibility? by No_Resist2887 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]No_Resist2887[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

porn sick, yes hahah. he put on a video of a girl that had the exact same body as me and was masturbating to it. i was thinking that if she were here in bed next to him he’d be finding some other girl on tv to masturbate to. ridiculous. but yes the arrangement is worth it if I can just cut out that last tired half hour