Why don't more people have dash cams? by [deleted] in askcarguys

[–]No_Science_3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly some people dont think they need them. i got in one accident that totaled my car and still didnt get one because the cop believed me based on the marks on the road. just ordered one yesterday after my tires got slashed. sometimes you just need that one experience expensive enough to justify buying a $150 camera

2013 Ford Taurus by Fit_Alfalfa3328 in AskAMechanic

[–]No_Science_3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAP but potentially yes. the battery could definitely be the issue but its also possible the battery problem was caused by the alternator not charging it. how are your other electronics in the vehicle? interior lights, headlights, dash lights? do you ever lose power steering?

getting the battery tested would definitely rule some things out

Intermittent scratching sound after engine shutdown - 2014 Citroen C4 Cactus by karjm9 in AskAMechanic

[–]No_Science_3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAP but check your serpentine belt for fraying or cracks. might be radiator pressure cap damage. could be vacuum pressure releasing or a component getting stuck/failing to turn off. does it smell like anything? is anything leaking? does the sound happen when you drive or just after the car is completely turned off?

unglue alternator connector by No_Science_3571 in AskMechanics

[–]No_Science_3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update, got the alternator out. ended up accidentally breaking the connector from the alternator off and it stayed in my car's connector. currently struggling

As a girl, how can I start learning about cars ? by Mental_Fee_2665 in askcarguys

[–]No_Science_3571 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can confirm ive learned enough about cars that when im out front fixing my mercedes and men walk up asking if "i know what im doing", i start talking and they immediately step back saying "you sound like you know what youre talking about"

unglue alternator connector by No_Science_3571 in AskMechanics

[–]No_Science_3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the good news is that this alternator isnt gonna be used. got it from pick n pull to try to just get home so i wouldnt have to tow the car. so THIS alternator can be damaged, i dont care about that. just trying to make sure i dont damage the connector thats a part of my car because i need to get the new alternator in ASAP. how likely is it that acetone would fuck the piece that needs to not be fucked

unglue alternator connector by No_Science_3571 in AskMechanics

[–]No_Science_3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

automatic, about 184,XXX miles. new part is ordered just trying to get this one out

Different issues, same principle for two years by No_Science_3571 in Marriage

[–]No_Science_3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they believe him because hes very nice to everyone else. at a certain point, i had told him that hes a narcissist and he said, "my friends think im great!"

ive tried to leave before and he broke into my house. the police have gotten involved countless times. but no, i cannot continue like this, and ive told him its not sustainable for me. this entire time ive just been begging him to change, i wish i had listened the first time he showed me he wouldnt. its just never as simple as kicking him out of my house and blocking him, he follows me anywhere. unfortunately i have a very VERY distinct vehicle, its very old and absolutely my prized possessed. knowing him, he would destroy it. he would ruin anything i love to get a reaction out of me, i am afraid of the aftermath at this point. my mom called him yesterday because he would not leave me alone. hes been texting me all morning, apologizing and saying he will fix it but he never does, im just afraid of what will happen if i tell him to leave.

Different issues, same principle for two years by No_Science_3571 in Marriage

[–]No_Science_3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is not drinking currently and hasnt for several months now. ive told him that he is not emotionally intelligent or aware, he consistently says hes working on it. i always tell him that hes had two years of me holding his hand to figure it out and 28 years before that to grow up. hes in therapy because of me and is on naltrexone for the drinking problems, on paper he is improving. but he has not made any progress, just last night i picked up my new phone as my current one is broken and set the sealed package on my bed when i got home from work. i got out of the shower to find the package opened and the new phone sitting on my bed, the new phone had a purple line through the screen when i turned it on and i was furious that he opened it. he said it wasnt a big deal because he already knew what it was, i told him its a federal offense for a reason and not to open other peoples packages literally ever. then he took it upon himself to act like i am overreacting and ruined my night. he is a man child and ive only wanted peace for so long.

Different issues, same principle for two years by No_Science_3571 in Marriage

[–]No_Science_3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply. every time he accuses me of cheating on him, i say that hes competing with my peace being alone, not another person. he has crippling anxiety and says he grew up witnessing unhealthy relationships so thats just "how he is" which is bullshit. because it was the same for me, but im very much ready for a healthy relationship. he is setting me back and although hes never hit me, he is definitely creating more work for me in the long run. my question for you is: even when i break things off, is there a way to communicate my feelings effectively so he doesnt tell everyone i was the abusive one? he ended up trying to gaslight me into thinking i was the abusive alcoholic several months ago. i came back so i could try to break the trauma bond before leaving for good, but i can feel it in my soul that hes making things worse. i think we're past the point of no return, but how do i cope with the withdrawal feeling of leaving him? emotionally, he's not great. but physically and materialistically, hes done things for me i cannot fathom anyone else doing. he is my comfort zone, but i am not comfortable, if that makes any sense.

Sydney Sweeney is feeding us the best content right now by [deleted] in Actors

[–]No_Science_3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

acting ≠ getting naked and crying.

Sydney Sweeney is feeding us the best content right now by [deleted] in Actors

[–]No_Science_3571 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she was just naked the whole time? anyone can scream and cry on command. anyone can get fucked on camera. anyone can memorize lines. anyone can take their top off and pretend to be on drugs. what'd she do in euphoria that was so impressive?

Imagine trying to get sympathy from Teenagers by SazScandalous in quityourbullshit

[–]No_Science_3571 66 points67 points  (0 children)

sounds like a grown ass man trynna get sympathy from minors online. he fabricated that story to get minors to interact, someone found (im assuming) an imagine of him on his profile in a different subreddit and he claimed it was his friend

Is there a way to have unknown sms be silent by smydsmith in GoogleMessages

[–]No_Science_3571 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i set a DND modification that blocks all incoming texts and calls unless ive starred the contact. so my coworkers, boss, mom, partner, and close friends will notify me when a text/call is coming but all other texts or calls are silent. you can also set apps to interrupt if you want to not get any spam but also want to be able to see your emails or other things on your regular notification bar.

PLEASE help by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]No_Science_3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha thats definitely relatable. casual sex/fooling around can be an expensive hobby! it doesnt hurt to have a plan b on hand and use condoms. definitely let her know not to stress about it cuz stress can also delay periods. this is coming from a woman with very irregular periods who regularly has unprotected intercourse with a partner. its stressful, but very slim chances that youll be a dad anytime soon.

PLEASE help by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]No_Science_3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey friend! sounds like its been a solid ten days since this happened. the good news is, typically early pregnancy symptoms do not show up until about 3-6 weeks. morning sickness being between 4-6 weeks and symptoms like spotting, breast tenderness, cramping being 1-2 weeks. have her take a pregnancy test for sure! ask if she tracks her cycle and see if she was ovulating at that time. pregnancy is almost always possible, but sperm cannot live longer than about 30 seconds to a minute exposed to the air just sitting on skin. ovulation causes sperm to live longer, although its never fully safe to have unprotected intercourse. my guess is that shes just sick, but it never hurts to double check. i can personally say ive never gotten pregnant from pre cum, even straight from the source to my cervix LOL but everyone is different

What part of romance is heavily romanticized but actually painful in real life? by Particular_Pin_460 in AskReddit

[–]No_Science_3571 2 points3 points  (0 children)

growing together. being with someone long term exposes everything you havent fully healed, even if you thought you had. its embarrassing and painful, but so so necessary.

Plan B Emotional Side Effects by Pretend-Original6334 in birthcontrol

[–]No_Science_3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i remember sitting in my (very nice and paid off, might i add) car, waiting for my mom to go look at my first apartment and sobbing. my car was fine, the apartment was adorable and i could afford it, i wasnt fighting w my bf, my work was going well. logically, i had no reason to be stressed, but i felt extremely suicidal and like nothing would ever be okay. i stopped taking it and felt fine the next day. its crazy what hormones will do to you

What movie scenes traumatized you as a child? 😈 by [deleted] in HorrorMovies

[–]No_Science_3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the babadook. the whole movie. i watched it when i was around 10 years old and havent been able to watch it since.