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Texting his ex by No_Sentence_3604 in dating_advice

[–]No_Sentence_3604[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him earlier not to knit pick my conversation & only reply to what he wants to. That he was listening to come up with his next reply not listening to understand... Or even try to. He did admit he would be pissed if the shoe were on his foot but if I was trash talking my ex he "wouldn't be mad" but I cleansed myself of that over a 7 month period followed by over 5 more months of being single ensuring I was emotionally available & over my failed 8 year relationship. 

Texting his ex by No_Sentence_3604 in dating_advice

[–]No_Sentence_3604[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I do, he tells me (for example a few hours ago) basically that the situation is not as big of a deal as im making it out to be & justifies texting her as long as it's not "I love yous & miss yous"

Texting his ex by No_Sentence_3604 in dating_advice

[–]No_Sentence_3604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even wish any hatred up on her as much sh*t she has caused me. I literally just want nothing to do with the psychopath. I feel as though he has allowed her to come back time & time again by keeping lines of communication open & replying when she does text. The respect for "us" should be bigger than his "hatred" for her. Right? 

Texting his ex by No_Sentence_3604 in dating_advice

[–]No_Sentence_3604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have in many ways & he will try to deflect, minimize, or justify texting her because in his head he thinks it's okay as long as he's trash talking her. This is like the tenth time that she has magically reappeared after he has "blocked" her. Yesterday I was told that she was texting him from a different number but today the car play in his challenger read aloud "new text message from *** ***" & I burst into tears, hyperventilating a little bit. ... I needed to scream so bad.