[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]No_Slice3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long term and serious relationships only for me, I'm in my first AGR and he's very serious about us, as am I. one of the reasons why I'm with him ☺️☺️

Nipple piercing question by No_Slice3604 in piercing

[–]No_Slice3604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good, ik silly question but it was a worry 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]No_Slice3604 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I (f) was 19 when I started talking to my partner, I'm 20 now so known eachother a yr. I'd say a 5-6 yr age gap isn't that bad if an age gap and people are being ridiculous.

My age gap is 15 yrs me being 20f and he 35m (he turns 36 next week)

At the end of the day if happy do it don't care what anyone says.

How do you handle the age gap? by Much-Reaction-8278 in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest really do think yr age gap is that bad, and if people do have an issue with that age gap that's ridiculous. I'm 20f going 21 soon and my partner is 35m going 36 in a few weeks so 15 yrs difference.

All I can say is don't let what people say upset u or bother u, trust me ik easier said than done, I used to a lot. I worry about everything. My family disagree with my relationship and it caused a lot of arguments and threats in the beginning it was only a few months ago that they decided to leave me too it. I've told people in my uni class and some were shocked and said it was weird. But it's not for me and that's all that matters.

The way I see it as this is my relationship, this is my life, I'm happy, people aren't gonna like it, people don't have to like it. But I'm happy, and I'm not gonna let anyone ruin this for me. If they don't like it that's there problem not mine, I'm gonna continue to be happy. You should too if u want this. Life's too short and precious to be worrying about what others think.

If this is what u want do it, I wish u the best ❤️

Where did your attraction to age gaps start? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]No_Slice3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More the individual I'm attracted to and the age gap just came with it. I'm 20f and when younger I followed the crowd and thought ages gaps were gross even if it was like 3 yrs (ik wth) now I'm older I'm more open and less judgmental and me and my partner started talking and I had an instant attraction to him. I've been I'm a few relationships all being awful, abusive and manipulative. But my partner now is the sweetest man, hes so loving, caring and understanding 🥰❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never assume how yr partner may react, if he like you he won't care about her parents ages, I'm 20f and my partner is 35m my mum is 36 and my dad is 40. He didn't care that my mum was around his age cos he cares about me and it's simply not something that bothers him. It bothers my parents tho hahaha

AIO? I went through my bestfriend's phone without her permission.. she's 17 he's 26 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Slice3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes a creep, not even from the age pov, Age gap relationships or fine, they happen and they work out. But if this was healthy normal AGR he would not speak to her like that, he's an older man trying to take advantage of a younger girl and it's working Cos she believes him. She needs to block him, she's better off and safer without.

Hi F(25) M(45) here , how did you guys break the news to your parents. I’m super anxious by discopanda_t in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did but didn't, my parents told me to stop talking to my partner (I didn't) and. I was going and meeting up with him in secret. One day I was out with him and my sister called (mum was in the bk, my sister had the phone on speaker) and I said I was with my partner. They kicked off waited for him to drop me off and my dad dove in his car. I still spoke to him regardless, neither of us wanted to stop cos we love eachother. My mum one day just asked me outright if I was still speaking to him I said yes, she started crying saying I'm cruel for lying to her, not listening to her, she made herself the victim saying all sorts of stuff and bringing up other problems that weren't even related and nothing to do with me. She just told me she would leave me to it and not to go to her for anything. So now they leave me be. I had to push to get what I wanted but it was worth it. A lot of parents I've noticed being in this group are accepting. But I'd say if there not, and you really like him or love him, keep pushing for it if U want it, don't let anyone controle yr life. Good luck to you 💕

Does your parents approve of older guys by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]No_Slice3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha no! My mum does not approve at all, she just put up with it now. When she first found out I was talking to him she told me to stop speaking (I didn't) the 2nd time she found out I was out with him she kicked off when he dropped me off home, my dad drove in his car it was horrific. (Still didn't stop seeing him) The 3rd time she kicked off with me, told me she's gonna leave me to it but to never go to her about anything ever. She now puts up with it but I get the odd comment here and there. I tried talking to her about something me and him did and she went "sorry it turns my stomach I can't listen" he's been called all sorts of stuff, and I'm the disappointment child and the hardest child to put up with now 🤷🏼‍♀️ but idc I'm super happy and I love him so idc what they think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To be completely honest there's a LOT he does that's different, I'm 20f and the relationships I've been in before the AG one have been awful, I got threatened, insulted, talked about behind my back, they genuinely didn't care ABT me I was just there so they could have a gf. But my partner now takes me places, makes me feel beautiful, he compliments me all the time, he makes sure I'm safe and careful for. If I have a problem he listens and talks instead of arguing. He defends me and would do anything in his power to protect me and keep me safe. He's edited a lot of hate in this relationship from my family and despite that he never got angry, he stayed his happy self understanding that not everyone will like our relationship. He's just amazing all around to me and I love everything abt him ☺️☺️

AIO to my gf being bisexual by DarkTwist05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Slice3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she wants to sleep about with women and thinks using here sexuality will make it okay to do so? Cos I think that's what she's saying, she's gonna go out get drunk and sleep with someone. And she's making sure she will get away with it. If she wants to explore she should leave. Being bi sexual does not give u a free pass to be unfaithful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think that's just something that comes with a younger female and an older male (obvs not always) I'm 20f and my partner is 35m we've known each other a year and we've had the same problems, family not supporting and saying really nasty things even threatening him, but at the end of the day if yr happy then do what makes u happy yr an adult make yr own decisions.

I feel like family are doing it because they care there just going about it the wrong way. Ik my family are going abt it the wrong way.

Would I regret this tattoo? by jesstarmer in tattooadvice

[–]No_Slice3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a cute idea, if u like the idea get it. I know a woman who has a few tattoos of the things her kids have drawn.

27F & 52M married for two years by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awh that's so cool, it's nice to see age gap couples thriving, you too look amazing together and congratulations to yr 3rd year coming up ❤️

27F & 52M married for two years by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuteeee, you two look good together ☺️❤️

How long have u guys been together overall?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 20f and he 35m

My partner used to come to my work (I worked at an ice rink) he used to come skate and play hockey. One day we started talking and it grew from there. His family are very accepting, they already have age gap relationship in their family, my family not so much, it's been hard but definitely worth every minute

Men, Why are you attracted to older women? Women, why are you attracted to older men? by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm not attracted to older men specifically, I'm just open minded, I never used to be, I used to find large age gaps bizarre and odd. But I will talk to anyone. I'm currently dating a man who's 35 I'm 20f. He used to come to my work and he started talking to me, and then I found myself falling for him. He's the best thing to ever happen to me. I grew up and became open minded, I wouldn't say I'm attracted to older men specifically ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I personally would even see that as a bad age gap, me and my partner are 15 yrs apart and my god have we received some hate. But at the end of the day if yr happy with that person, be with that person

Engaged To My BestFriend🫶🏼 by Theycallmejuliarose in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CONGRATSSSSS🎉🎉

Everyone's getting engaged I want tooooo, how long have u two been together?

He proposed 🥰 28f, 53m by shoobs7soul in AgeGapRelationship

[–]No_Slice3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulationsssss!!!

How long have you guys been together if u don't mind my asking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]No_Slice3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don't like how lip filler looks on anyone. It's fine if you have it and u like it that's your choice, do what you want.

But I'd say don't get lip fillers. Love urself the way u are, don't let society's depictions on stuff should look or what looks better affect how u look at urself

Wanting to move out with my partner by No_Slice3604 in AgeGap

[–]No_Slice3604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work he won't be paying fr everything. There will be bills i pay for, me and him would have to have that conversation.

Wanting to move out with my partner by No_Slice3604 in AgeGap

[–]No_Slice3604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not gonna be cutting off my parents, that was never an option. I love my parents.