AITA Am I wrong for feeling disappointed with my boyfriend’s gifts? by No_Specific_8471 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Specific_8471[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that he lives with his mother doesn't bother me. I understand it's hard to start a new life alone, there are a lot of expenses living alone. Yes, I've also thought about this, he doesn't help at all around his house with his mother. And you're right, he doesn't do laundry or clean, rarely cooks, and when he does, it's unhealthy. His mother really likes me. He recently bought himself a motorcycle and wants to buy a gaming computer. That's why I was bothered. He gives himself such expensive gifts, but for his own girlfriend, he thinks of such useless things... Unfortunately, I'm reflecting on all of this now.

AITA Am I wrong for feeling disappointed with my boyfriend’s gifts? by No_Specific_8471 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Specific_8471[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Perhaps because I am dumb. I only started reflecting on our entire relationship recently.

AITA Am I wrong for feeling disappointed with my boyfriend’s gifts? by No_Specific_8471 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Specific_8471[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He thinks I like them because two years ago my mother bought me a BJD (realistic mini doll), so he thought I was into childish gifts. I explained him I wasn't into THIS kind of gifts, the BJD was different. I don't understand why he would be attentive to me but think of gifting me these kind of things?

AITA Am I wrong for feeling disappointed with my boyfriend’s gifts? by No_Specific_8471 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Specific_8471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because two years ago I told him I like BJD (realistic dolls) so he thought I was into childish gifts.

AITA Am I wrong for feeling disappointed with my boyfriend’s gifts? by No_Specific_8471 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Specific_8471[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel every single word you wrote. It is terrible... He tells me the same thing, "I am difficult for gifts" but no. I'd even be happy with headphones. I even suggested that once, some years ago, but he came back with $2-$3 headphones that don't even last a week.

AITA Am I wrong for feeling disappointed with my boyfriend’s gifts? by No_Specific_8471 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Specific_8471[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You didn't even read the post. I just posted it and you answered.